@63732cbd573f5c0015bc4fa4 and @637610a1a88cab00158ca24b Pls share some tips on how to get a better bonding between my husband and my 3month old son

Hey <a href="http://app.babychakra.com/user/147093"><b><font color ="#3b5998">Sirisha </font></b></a>ur hubby needs to b confident..for now its okay since the baby is small but he shouldnt stop trying.. i dont think the baby is crying becoz of the hold,if he cries ask ur husband to not panic to calm the baby ..be creative..&#128515;just be with the baby wenever possible..sleep next to the baby..talk to him ..sing to him

I clearly know what You're talking about sirisha.My hubby met samyu after 2 months.I was praying for them to bond well and thankfully it happened.Few points that helped me:<br> 1.Talk.Talk alot her about dad.I used to tell her daily that daddy is so eager to meet u.He has bought so many toys for samyu,likewise.<br> 2.If he's afraid to carry,let him lie down next to her.My hubby used to lie close to her and play with her,making funny expressions and sounds.<br> 3.Make his face familiar to her.Engage him in all activities like playing,taking her for a walk in stroller,burping.<br> 4.Try using a swaddle bed.It could be easy for your hubby to carry her with that.

With time it will. The baby knows ur smell and as ur husband is not; confident baby senses it. Once she becomes less fragile and will start doing lot many things they will have a <u>bond</u>

Hi <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616d8eb8b986a1001396e960 </b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font>! Since my wife and baby stayed at my in-laws for some 6 months after the delivery and I could only visit them weekly, my wife insisted and I made sure I spent the entire time with him. Even before he was born I used to talk to the baby bump. Since my baby was a bigger baby compared to others so holding him in my arms wasn't that difficult but I can truly understand what your husband means. Holding those tiny creatures in our arms can be tricky for we husbands. I had my wife instructing the how to's all the time so that I didn't make any mistake. Of course I couldn't feed him as he was exclusively breastfed but I would rock him, talk to him and even change him. I didn't massage him when he was very little but I do now. And the time I was away I would talk to him on phone and video calls so that he knows I am his father. My wife made sure to talk about me, show him my pictures. Don't worry. The baby is his part too, she'll come to develop a deep bonding with him anyway, it's the genes.