Hi megha. ..dear its not solution to watching tv. ..agar use assistance chaie to aap thodi thodi der k bad uske pas jao aur 2 min me apna work firse start kro. ..chhota baby k sleeping time me mostly work complete kro. .yaar my elder son is 8 years old fir bhi always use mumma pas me chahie. . Time management is solutions of all issues. ..kids ko kuchh activities chahie always. ..New ideas impress them. .n dear big advice is dimag ko shant rakho. ..All d best. .

Hello kavita Sahany my elder baby girl is 2.5 .. and her pre School starts in July.. she like do draw but without assistance she will loose her interest after sometime.. so most of d time I make her watch TV..

hi dear, u should do most of works when both babies are sleeping..nd in the morning time, when elder one goes to school, make schedule of sleep for smaller one..so without disturb, u can complete your works..
i had the same situation, so i did most of works nd cooking when one at school nd other was sleep..give small music toys to smaller & pencil , crayons , books to big one..give some time for watching rhymes or cartoons..take help from neighbours..kids love to listning musics..so u can play it for them too..

Ya I've been there.
Plan plan plan.
Remember that Older one needs as much attention n care; as the baby.
Plan activities, plan menus, plan ur personal stuff.
Once twice in a week or so get ur mom/mil/ any responsible person to come fr a few hours to help u.
Pls look for help for the house n kids as u can't be in two places at a time. Eg if one kid is unwell, problems multiply.

Toddlers are a bit easy. Get them to play on their own. Coloring .....or just a toy car....let them play and say it's Alone play time. Plan your day in advance. Utilize your child's sleep time wisely. Try to get a little help as much as you can...eg cutting veggies, drying clothes....any work that a maid can do ... give it to the maid.