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I am having breathlessness problem from last 1 week along with blocked nose. Last night;my whole family went to theatre to watch golmaal but me and my husband had to return home within 15 minutes as;both my nostrils got blocked completely. I am sick all the time. I did not have nausea but God gave a bigger health problem. My asthma has worsened in pregnancy guys..

As I am not keeping well, I am unable to contribute much to our house chores except for serving food to all and then winding up the dining table and sometimes, cooking for my husband if my health permits, for now. Most of the work is done by our servants led by my MIL. My in laws are expecting me to take in charge of buying water, vegetables, managing servants by allocating them work, etc. The problem is that we are;8 people in this house and all have different eating demands! In my current state I cannot take up such huge responsibilities. I am not even able;to sleep whole night and hence getting up by 8 and by that time our servants finish making the lunch! I guess you all are getting what I am trying to say. Managing a joint family is not at all easy that too for a girl;who is only 27 years old 😓
;Anyone of you who stays in a joint family kindly help me please. Please tell me how do I;make my in-laws happy.
How do you all manage your respective homes?
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Sumira Bhatia

Aww kritika it is the most beautiful feeling !! Lots of love to you! Take care 💞

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Kritika Lall

Omg glad to see such kind words from u all <u>sweethearts</u>!!! Firstly love you all..I will try to concentrate on my baby only for now..my NT scan was normal only..I got damn happy to see my baby moving in the scan..saw her/his head, nose, legs and hands &#128522;<br> Coming to asthma guys, my dad who is also a doc has suggested me to take seroflo inhaler whenever I m unable to breathe as very little amount goes to the blood stream..most of it goes to lungs..for blocked nose, he has advised me to take a course of mometasone nasal spray once in a <u>d</u>ay for a week or so..hope I will be better in few days..lots of love to you guys..God bless you all &amp; ur babies too &#128536;

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Merline Joffy

As u r pregnt,; ur priorty should b ur baby. Don't think abt making others happy. In such a big famly , it won't b easy 2 make all happy. But u can keep urself nd ur baby happy.

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Shruti Giri

Hey...don't get disheartened kritika....u got this!!! ..u r going to be a mum soon n that's the biggest thing in the world.... First you concentrate on how to get your breathing issue treated...talk to ur MIL that it's great that she trust you with handling a joint family at this age; as good as she does but your health right now is not permitting you to do so.... Even if you wish to... Take care of yourself ...that should be your topmost priorities

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Akshaya Naresh

Hey kritika!don't feel low dear.You're awesome!Don't blame yourself.Check with your doc for asthma.Get a tablet that you can use in extreme conditions.Take your tablets regularly.A happy mom leads to a happy baby.So do not worry about any in laws or hubby's issues now.they'll understand.If not,let time heal everything.You don't feel bad.Just do what you can and leave it.Stay awesome<u>!</u>

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