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i am having constants fights screeming shouting with my husband from last few days over some issues. will this affect the baby inside ? he is least bothered about my pregnancy and always shouts and screems on me and even hurt me physically.
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Sheeba Rizvi

Hello dear...loads of hugs n love to you.....it's very sad you are facing such trauma at this stage. Thanks Babychakra for giving such explanation n clear advice. I would suggest you to talk about this very sensitive issue with your family.Try to figure out of his behaviour. Is he like this from day of your marriage or there's something which is making him stressed or frustrated like his work or anything? but still reason can.be anything his abusive behaviour cannot be acceptable at all.  So think calmly discuss with your parents n take a firm decision...if possible go to your parents house for sometime think on issues....All the very best I pray you will get a happy n peaceful life dear. Please don't torture yourself mentally or physically as it affects your baby too. Be happy

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Sheeba Vijesh

Hi dear, so sorry you are going through this at such a time. We are all here for you sweetheart. But you have to talk about this to someone close to you, like your family, friend or someone. Take a firm decision. First of all, you should consider going to your parents home, you can't risk being with a physically abusive person, when you are pregnant. I would say, talk to your parents, and like said above, attend counselling sessions together with husband. If he is ready to mend his ways, then good, else you should consider leaving him for good. Its not easy to live with a person who is abusive, and that too who doesn't care that his wife is pregnant.

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Saima Tariq

Don't take any Immediate Step.. <br> Think about the Cause of Diff between both of U.. <br> keeping Ur Ego aside.. <br> Afterall, u r going to be a Mother.&nbsp; A Best Mother vl always try to give the child Best of the Best. <br> Dear, no-one vl be with you, if you take a wrong decision .<br> Sufferer vl be U and Ur Baby Only and nobody. <br> Filhaal&nbsp; khush rehnay ki Koshish Karo.. khawo piyo aish Karo.. <br> Behass aur ladaayi se door raho.. Try to overcome Ur Anger, <br> Fr the well-being of ur Litl Angel &#128522;<br> Enjoy Ur Pregnancy with Positive Thoughts plz..

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Prachi Arora

my opinion differs here ..no matter if ur argumenting on right thing or wrobg thing.. he have no right to hurt u.. for that reason any human cannot hit any other human..be it a girl or a boy.. but yes.. if till now u have not involved ur elders or loved ones into this.. then ask them to intervene.. and if nothing changes then take a stand.. at the end I would just say u r not alone .. u r going to be a mother .. u have ur lil one's future in ur hand so take it easy ..and think smartly..&nbsp; don't think what others will say..do what u think is right for u n ur kid

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Saima Tariq

Dear */<br> If You are Arguing or Fighting with Your Hubby On Imp or Genuine Topics..<br> And without Understanding,&nbsp; he Abuses U mentally or physically.. then he is Wrong.. If U instinct him with talking about Unnecessary things&nbsp; which he don't like.. then plz avoid such Topics. <br> And try to avoid over arguing with your hubby. First 2-3 years r very hectic between a no.&nbsp; of Couples. <br> Try to Understand each other.. <br>

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