I am purchasing last minute stuffs for my baby which was long pending. Everytime i buy anythinh my MIL starts questioning me why this, why that? Humlog ke time pe ye sab nahi tha etc. How do i explain that times have changed? I bought a thermometer for the baby and my FIL asked me why is it required? Its the same like what we use.
At times it gets really frustrating. My husband never objects with whatever i buy. He knows that i want the best for our baby.
I try to be calm. But it gets on my nerves at times.
I bought seba med and mothercare products, so i was told we bought up kids on johnsons. I am sure its a good product what if i want to use these companies then whats the harm?
How do i tackle all this i dont know. Just i dont want to back answer and create any ruckus out of it.
At times it gets really frustrating. My husband never objects with whatever i buy. He knows that i want the best for our baby.
I try to be calm. But it gets on my nerves at times.
I bought seba med and mothercare products, so i was told we bought up kids on johnsons. I am sure its a good product what if i want to use these companies then whats the harm?
How do i tackle all this i dont know. Just i dont want to back answer and create any ruckus out of it.
Thanks <b><span style="color:#3B5998;"> @5f5223878cd1250045aff374 </span></b>.. thats what m gonna do now.. have purchased almost all the things i cud think off.. mebbe now i will purchase as and when reqd. <br>
Being a fst timer i am as it is so scared plus all these words when it comes from them it hurts me. Past 4 months i have not shopped anythinh for myself except basics and have only been shopinh for my baby.. why dont they realise this too..😃
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Darling
I know how you feel and what you have gone through ... <br>
The best way to cope up is blame it on the third party 😄😄<br>
I always put it on the doc. <br>
What you need to do is make a list what you want to buy and ask your doc. To help you with this ... just wrote and she may say it's needed .. That's the diplomatic way..<br>
If you get into this argument, generation gap it won't help niether they gonna listen or understand .<br>
So don't stress at all .. You know you are doing it for your baby and the lil munchkin is already in love with you ...momma is buying so many goodies for him/her
Lots of love <br>
<u>Cheers</u>
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Hey chill ..buy what you feel is best for the baby ...you need not show everything when you buy ...keep them gradually show it to her or use when the baby comes <u>home</u> ...And also try to ignore such things . They compare those time with ours so happens ...; Don't think about it much ..TC
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Fortunately I dint had this issue may be because we live in different house. Anyways these things can't be avoided Kushboo n wait till you deliver. .. it's; going to be more interference.; They will say milk is thin..it's not enough blah blah. . You just need to ignore or involve them in ur shopping.;;
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16 Jan 2018