As suggested by dr. Kashish: Hello Anonymous , firstly please get your Free T3, Free T4 , TSH , Vit D3,; Vit B12 , and iron levels chkd. Remember you have 2 be ur own support. We r here , all of us to support u. If for some reason , u cannot mk healthy food, buy dry fruits , nuts(almond, pistachios, cashew) and seeds(flaxseed , pumpkin,sunflower, chia, watermelon seeds ). Take care of your child. DONT LEAVE UR SASURAL WHEN HE TELL U TO.. see , if it possible 2 work fm home a few months till ur health stabilises. Approach an ngo that morally , and financially supports women , n be a part of their organisation. Start yoga and remember , whatever u do , u will not b able 2 change people. Start taking care of urself 1st. If u think divorce is the answer , do u hv a back plan in place ? As to ur plc of residence , financial aid , etc ? Nobody here , can 100% randomly answer ur qs ur qs. U hv 2 figure out 4 urself bcoz it is ur life after all. Here at this beautiful community , the team perhaps can gocthe extra mile , and empower u in few ways. Rest , u have to use ur spine n stand up strong 4 urself. Enuf of being the victim. Lets take charge and win at this now. All d best.

hi dear, before thinking about divorce, please see if there is some way to make your relationship get better. Has your husband always been this abusive, what is the reason for the abuse and telling you to leave home. It does not matter how much you eat, but try to get most nutrition from what you eat. Try to include fruits and nuts in your diet. Make a powdered mixture of sathumavu(you can get recipe on the net, it includes roasting and powdering of different pulses , ragi, nuts etc) you can make a porridge of it and have. Include milk, egg etc in diet. These will not require too much effort, only the preparation takes a little time. Put your physical and mental health before everything else.

Hi Anon. Don't worry.; You have to be strong mentally in this situation. Pls sit and talk with your husband.; Most of the problems will be solved if we sit and talk. Just take an off from ur office and take care of your health and baby.; Don't think about divorce. Go for counseling with your husband.

Hi Anon, you do have a lot of courage and I feel no mother should ever suffer. It's difficult to say exactly what you should do because only you can decide that. Pls be strong. It would be great if you could seek personal interaction with a counselor with hubby. Have you spoken to hubby on how you feel and how your health is suffering?

anon - u also need to speak to a marriage counsellor. would ur hubby be willing to take a small break with u and baby? would it help if you travelled to some place nice? what kind of work is he into?