I want to ask a question to all of u.I stay with my husband.My husband is very selfish.He only needs his food, clothes etc.He don't care about me and my child.I do all the work alone.Only 1maid is there who does cleaning and utensils.I do everything for my child.I have a flat nearby and my husband stays there after coming from office and in holidays he stays there for 7-8hrs.I told him about my problem, I told him he can come directly at home but he don't care at all.He says many husband's are staying out of station how they manage?so manage urself.My parents stays far away.His income is not that much to keep an extra maid.Main kaise acche see sab manage karu,plz help.Husband ko vi mujhe dikhana hai ki main kar sakti hu because he insults me alot and we fight a lot,issue Mera baccha vi fear me rehta hai aur main itba shout karti hu ki Mera health kharab ho raha hai.How can I manage like a single mom.plz help.
I dint understand why he stays in the other flat?? First you talk to him on that. Jab dono ne milke decision liya hai baby ka to ek saath rehna chahiye and sare responsibilities ek saath nibhana hai.. <br>
Income zada nahi hai ek extra maid ke liye then aap bolen ki wo ghar rent par den and then extra money se dono comfortably rahen. Aap pyar se samjhane ki koshish karen first. Unke answer ke baad next step decide karen.. unko koi bhi responsibility nahi leni hai age bhi then kuch alernative arrangement karna padega .. And tab bhi unko hi financial responsibility leni padegi legally ... Ye unko theek se samjha dijiye.
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Sritama, aap Sabse pehle relax karo. Kafi husbands ki ye habit Hoti hai ki unko koi matlab nai hota ki ghar kaise chal rha hai, unko lagta hai ki paise kama kar unki duty poori ho gyi. Jaisa @61321b91c71eba0013440537 ne kaha, aapko stand Lena hoga. Aap Shuruaat to karo, pehla step Lena bahut mushkil hota hai, Sabse Zyada himmat usi ke liye chahiye Hoti hai. Fir sab manage ho jayega. Aajkal companies mein working women ke liye creche facilities rehti hai taki aap kaam bhi karo aur bachhe Ko bhi dekh lo. Nai to office ke pas koi creche dekh sakte ho jiske reviews achhe ho. Ghar pe maid ke bharose bachha chhodne se better hai ki creche mein chhodo kyuki vaha kafi sare bachhe hote hai. Par Puri tarah se sab kuch clear karke hi decision Lena, safety wagerah dekh kar. Main agar apna example du to mujhe 3.5 months ka ek course karna tha aur family se koi bhi aane ke liye ready nai hua jiske pas main beti Ko chhod Sakti. Husband bhi kitne din chutti lete office se... To maine usse 3 hours ke liye creche mein chhodna start Kiya. Shuruaat mein thodi prob aayi but manage ho gya. Aap ya to kuch part time dekh sakte ho, ya work from home jobs. Koi Aisa course karo jisse aap ki skills increase ho. Baby first priority hamesha hi Rehna chahiye, Lekin aise abusive mahol mein reh kar vo kya seekh rha Hoga? Kuch to stand Lena hoga aapko. Thodi si himmat karo aap. Kisi aur Ko prove karne ke liye nai, khud ki Nazar mein khud Ko prove karna zaruri hai. Take care.
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Actually main job karna chahti hu but mere parents out of station rehte hai,aur maids to aj Kal acche milte vi nahi hai and he is only 16months,kuch bol vi nahi pata.Ha main shadi se pehle job karti thi lekin baby Meri 1st priority hai abhi.
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Sritama sabse jaroori ye hai ki agar aap pehle job karte the toh job resume kar skte ho. Aap apne parents se baat kro ek baar. Aise abusive relationship me rehna aapke aur baby dono k liye sahi nhi hai. Aapko stand lena hoga. Aap ki kya education hai us hisab se aap work from home options bhi dekh skte ho. Kuch moms ko tag kar rhi hoon mai behtar salah k liye.<br>
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Rebecca Prakash
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11 Sep 2019