I want to know your husbands behaving or behaved when it comes to baby inside the womb? My husband left abroad when I was 7 weeks pregnant, of course he calls everyday many times to know what I'm doing etc, sometimes he is innocent still ridiculous. ... like when he found out I sound tired after bath he suggested keep nurse who can bathe you😅 so I'm happy about all his concerns but he is still not emotionally attached to the baby, Yesterday had my NT scan when I told him I'm anxious he sent me"All the best to you 👍 👍" As if it's just my baby, yesterday I burst into tears when I heard the heart beats and I wanted to record it and send it to him but i was too emotional yesterday so dint do it, I told him he dint say "you could have done it or i wanted to know how it is" But he already finalised our house there keeping baby in the mind,he talks about school hospital nearby where we can take the baby for stroll etc.
we will complete 8 yrs this September and we went through many disappointments with baby trying, When I discussed this with my frn she said the baby is still not reality to them.. they need to see the baby then things will change . but I'm getting to see so many baby chakra post where husbands showed great intrest. I'm confused I was not close to my father and I missed that phase so I always wanted by kids to be close with their father but the way my husband behaves I doubt.