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I wonder what is happening to me now a days. Constant feeling of fatigue, a feeling of am not worth of anything, nobody love me. I have no support to raise my child. I wake up day n night to take care of baby. Words used by my husband for my daughter are in joke but heart wrenching (maar maar k tera bhoot bnauga) whenever she wakes up early morning or in mid night.

I am not liking any of my hobbies. I just want to stay alone n quiet in dark room. No affection side from husband.

I always feel so low. No hunger no thirst. Living like a robot.😢
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Riddhi Doshi

Dear, first of all, a tight hug to you. Smile.....as life isuch more than you thought off. Smile for your daughter, she deserves all your love, creativity and connect. Start with baby steps to work on Yourself and you are sure to make a difference in your own life. Wish yourself Goodmorning everyday, hug yourself and say I love you beautiful and third..go for a walk atleast for 10 mins in the morning. Do this for 10 days and we connect again.. Love to <u>you</u>

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asha chaudhry

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asha chaudhry

hi dear, i'm sorry you are going through such a difficult phase in life. i think most of us do at some point or the other. we then crawl into this deep, dark tunnel where we have no energy or inclination to do anything. but trust me, you are capable of pulling yourself out of this. not just for your baby, but for yourself because you are precious. your self esteem and self worth may be down right now - that's okay, pick yourself up again. pls start by getting distracted productively. if baby is too small for you to do something right now, pls try and help some moms on the app whenever you can - trust me, HELPING HEALS. we are all broken and damaged in some sort of way. we just find a purpose and that keeps us going. pls try to spring back soon - every child needs a creative mom, which i'm sure you are. ping me in chat whenever you feel like talking. tc.

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Tanuja

Hi anon..i completely understand..u knw mostly the root of al our problems is expectations...how we expect everyone to love us,respect understand us n many more..who says we need anyone else to love us...how about not expecting anything from anyone right now..just be with urself...love n pamper urself..talk to urself and find out the solution..is self pitying a solution..are u getting any better like that..im sure no.. so just have some courage and get up..live like u dont need anyone except urself.. talk to anyone who is ready to listen..ur mother frnds...talk talk talk n get it al out ... but remember in the end its only u who can help u...be strong, ur baby is watching u..for raising a happy soul u should make urself happy...about ur husband just try to rekindle the romance..plan for outings,dinner etc watever u used to do.. i knw im telling u to do it all but we are women for a reason..coz we are the stronger species,we feed,we clean,we earn,we support we can do everything ...we dont do one thing..we dont fail... n we dont cry n beg for anything&#128515; n rest ,u always have babychakra n al the beautiful n wonderful mommies here who come from every part of the society..u hav our support

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Am Zam

Yaar..y to expect love n respect frm others..we are enough to love n respect ourselves.; Stop expecting anything from ur hubby.. show him u r strong with n without his love also!; I know it's easy to say.. but sachme!; When u start loving ur own self. .ul never crave for; others.<br> Hang out with ur baby.. love him to the core.. make up ur mind.. Sab Gaye tel lene! Enjoy each n every moment with ur baby.. he is totally dependent on u n u have to give him the best.. <u>tc</u>

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