I would like to share with you all an incident that left me disturbed. A few weeks ago, I took my little fella to an indoor play area where adults are allowed to accompany very young children who need assistance. Since my fella has always been an independent one, I did not feel the need to accompany him and waited in the lounge outside. After half an hour of play, he comes out in tears and completely shaken. Upon enquiring he said that a lady inside slapped him and asked him to get out. Upset that I was, I took him in to identify the person. It turned out to be a grandmum whose grandchild was almost the same age as my child. The kids apparently had a scuffle over a toy. The grandmum in her judgement, coupled with the fact that no one was looking, decided to prove the 'adult' that she was, by striking a child that was not hers. Instead of explaining to the two kids, or informing the assistants there, she wielded her 'adult' strength.
Why is empathy so difficult to show to a child that is not yours? And being an adult does not give anyone the right to harm a child physically less stronger. As adults we must teach children to love and not set examples to hate. @asha chaudhry , @Priya Sood , @aditi manja , @Sheeba Vijesh , @Neha Rungta
24 May 2017
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Neha Rungta
Oh God! I wonder how the poor kid must have been left feeling at such behaviour from a stranger. who gave the woman the liberty to do such a thing. hugs to the little one! such incidents can be really disturbing for both the mom and child. I hope he was fine after a pep talk. The play places today are so commercialised that no one really takes care of the kids and they stuff more kids than their capacity sometimes, particularly on weekends. I have no choice but to avoid them here in Surat more often than not.
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28 May 2017
Shruti Giri
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616d5c785988200013dc45d1 </b></font> exactly... why people wont treat every child equally. They will have a different set of rules for own child n different for other's children. What i observed is sometimes mothers feel very embarrassed about their children's behavior, but they wont tell their children to do the right instead they will point out your n your children's mistake just to ignore their's... it has become the way of living for somw people around me at least
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24 May 2017
Gayatri Rao
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372d8bf29c20f001575a1de </b></font> I know what you feel. It is sad that not all parents think alike. Then again I would say that do refrain from pleasing others by shouting at your kid and assuming that they will do the same when their kids misbehave. Having said that from personal experience with my older one in play grounds, I'd very calmly tell him in front of others without judging him for his misbehaviour. It worked well. As for the others they'd get a little irked that I did not shout at my kid.
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24 May 2017
Gayatri Rao
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @63729b593f31520016a69b80 </b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font><font color ="#3b5998"><b></b></font> it was a very unsettling incident. Mainly for the fact that I was just a few feet away. But again the purpose of this post is to train kids to tell their parents everything. I know of a few silent children who don't and the parents are never aware of what happened in school or play grounds. Yes I gave her a polite earful hoping that she thinks before trying this again.
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24 May 2017
Shruti Giri
its really disturbing.<br>
ill share one thing here... <br>
We ha e so many children in our society .. they all are of age group 1 to 4... whenever my son is hitting or shouting or snatching things i am the only person who will shout on my child... that time others will be like yes thats the very bad behavior .. u have to make him uunderstand... n when their children are doing they will be ok bcz they are children . they are supposed to do that.... i dont get it... u expect uunderstanding from a 15 montb old just bcz he is not yours... its ridiculous!!
Neha Rungta
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28 May 2017