I'm so so fed up... my in laws feel that I'm making their darling son work like a servant at home, and myself keep sitting like a princess. my girl too, is most comfortable with me, n doesn't like to be with anyone else for long, not even her father.. the truth is, yes, my husband works at home to help me out, because obviously managing home n baby together is tough, n it's his baby too, not just mine.. regarding the comfort level my daughter shares with me, my in-laws complain that I always keep my baby stuck to me so she doesn't go to anyone else. I do keep her close, but she hasn't been with her grandparents much after birth, as they left soon, n I was all alone, she has only seen me since beginning so she is most comfortable with me... I do get fed up when she behaves cranky n is extra clingy, when I'm really tired n need some rest, but I really can't do anything about it.. I was introvert as kid too, n opened up with very less people, maybe shez like that too... shez active n cheerful, her weight is on track, but she appears lean, with which they have a problem too. They feel I'm starving her, n don't take care of her... n busy in my own world. they don't want me to resume work too, n stay at home with her. obviously, I don't plan to resume work now because shez very small n needs me around, bt I would definitely go back once she grows a bit... my mil likes to increase the differences between me n my husband always, n keeps on complaining about me to him. although he never tells me all this, n is very sensible, all this takes a toll on him sometimes too... I just needed to vent out all this... don't know when things would be better!!!