Everyone has been telling me that second child is always mischievous. Whether its a boy or a girl, they grow to become pranksters.;
Somewhere I agree to what they say as my little one is very different and extremely naughty then my elder one.
Why so? Till now I haven't figured it out. But few things that come to my mind is may be because she is the youngest in the house so gets more attention and that makes her do things which will focus us towards her.
She gets love from her sister too. The elder ones always sacrifice their toys, belongings and even parents time for their younger siblings. They understand that at the moment the baby needs more care.
They tend to get spoilt as they already have the elder siblings toys/clothes and get even more new ones.
The second child observes the elder one and if they are misbehaving & showing tantrums then he/she will surely follow irrational behaviour.
They come with an inborn talent of getting things done from their siblings. A cute smile and big sister/brother succumbs to it.
What your elder one might not do, the younger one will surely do. Mostly two kids are poles apart in their nature.
If you focus on the elder one more, the second one might get a little rebellious or it can even happen vice versa.
Now when you have 2 kids to take care of, you let go certain things. All rules fade with time. Your space gets divided so does your disciplinary action.
Its not necessary that kids who are mischievous and of playful nature will become arrogant or disobedient.;
;It's just a phase and it shall pass too. Soon both kids will grow up and we will miss these sweet naughty childhood memories of theirs.
What do you think? Is your second one naughty or vice versa? Do share in comments.
Kaushal Rajput
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08 Nov 2019