It is thought by many; that nursing a single child is easy but no boss it requires a lot of effort,patience and understanding.





1) Pampered child-It is often a misconception that a single child is pampered but in my case no I have been training jiyana to do things on her own whatever may be or whatever she could.





2)Time- Time is the bigger sacrifice you give to ur child ,at least spare one hour with her and I do it now also.so in case of single parenting it requires more time and saves time vice-versa if you have 2 kids or more.





3)Better late than never-It becomes difficult to inculcate some habits like brushing to ur child and more than that explaining them what is to be done what is right on so on.





4)Lack of knowledge -It becomes easier when we know how to raise a second child in terms when we lack some things when we raised a first child.





So more or less both are difficult and I respect both.





Nonetheless if the 1st one is more naughty





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5)Good listener- Kids are good listener so do not speak unnecessary topics or some sentences which you feel could degrade them .





6)Fights -We need to stop fighting whether it be a spouse or your child or inlaws .They actually get scared and obviously we don't want to do that.So to make them avoid imitating we should. Actually stop.





7) Understanding level- I have seen that the. Understanding level is little less in single child whereas things are easily done in presence of 2nd child by actually imitating each other.





So jiyana is just 2.5 and is am not sure whether I. Want a second child but one thing their innocence shouldn't be lost among adults .