It's been 6 months me and husband are fighting on an topic of visiting my in law house, 3 hours of car journey from where we stay. Last time we traveled when she's was 3 months old that time I really had bad backpain and it's very difficult feed while traveling. But I don't know my in laws want us to visit every month. Again we had fight I don't know how to deal with this, my husband don't say anything to them. I clearly said to mother in law that if we are unable to visit at least u can come right. She won't come but she want me to go there. I'm frustrated guys please help.
Think of it as a break from your everyday routine. Once in a while you could even consider asking your parents-in-law to meet you at a third location? Meaning somewhere halfway between your home and theirs? It will be like a day/weekend out for you too?
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If travelling by car is causing physical discomfort, you could try alternative modes of transport like trains?
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If having your parents-in-law over for a few months is agreeable then you should probably invite them once or twice a year. Instead of going there every month, you could go once in two/three months and stay for a while longer?
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Hey Ellora. Glad to know you have arrived at a decision. I have always found that making peace with a situation you cannot help is the best for your own mental health
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25 Jun 2017