Kids And Their Mood Swings;





Mood swings are very common in children of all age groups one moment they are cheery and the next moment they are sad or grumpy or sullen. Across all age groups mood swings exist and they have their own impacts.;
The Kid With A Mind
When a child is between 3-5 yrs of age, we will see that they become very happy even with very minor things like a toy or may be a chocolate or might be just with your words similarly a small denial on your part makes them very angry or grumpy. Suppose he goes with you to a shop and he wanted something but you denied him he starts shouting , throwing tantrums but the very next moment you buy him a chocolate just see the change.
They are suddenly happy and all praise for you. At this age group, it is quite common, the mood swings are usually short lived, and they can change with your positive approach. At times you will see them sullen, fighting, interrupting you or might even withdraw within themselves. This is not to be worried. This phase will not last long and you can easily change it with your words. But if you see the child is in high anxiety or fear or impulsive or easily distracted, sad for a long time or very elated without any caused do take it seriously. This needs a little concern from your side. Do sit with the child and have a word with him.;
The Budding Kid
When children are in the age group of 6-12 their problems start increasing since their world is expanding. They have started schooling and are making friends. Therefore, in this age you might find them having a lot many problems and mood swings. Between 6-8 years of age they might appear very strange. They may love a particular friend very much but when he is praised they do not feel happy at all. Therefore, they become sad and might even quarrel and return home in high temperament. However, the very next moment if they come home and find their favorite dessert in front of them their happiness knows no bounds. You can easily handle this moodiness. If you make them aware about their nature, they will surely understand and try to follow your words. But at times these slight problems are aggravated so they may feel very anxious and might even shout or feel sleeplessness-do handle it with care. But when the child is in pre teens; several minor changes start coming up. He may feel angry or even anxious about the growth signs of his body. Extreme anxiety and fear can also come up and then again there is peer pressure or even sibling rivalry.;



Puberty-The Game Changer
Finally, when puberty comes sometimes they can show extremes of temperament. The main cause behind this can be their relationships with the opposite sex or they might even feel concerned about their future. Do not worry they are quite common in this age group. At times you might find them totally withdrawn in a shell the reasons may be many. They might be ashamed of the changes in their body-like the voice becoming hoarse In case of boys, or the appearance of pimples, or breast enlargement in girl and so on. It is quite natural for them to have fluctuations in mood but take care that the mood swings do not last for long. They may at times be rude or disobedient. do not get hurt with their behavior. Handle the situation with great patience; try to befriend your child. This will be of great help to both of you.;
The Teen Age
Once they are in age group of 15-18 yrs their world has expanded, they are ready to step out in the world as they will now step out of the closed atmosphere of home and school to college. They have many thoughts going around in their minds. It is only parents who can handle them during their mood flings.;
Key Takeaways-
Children and their moods do not last long but only when their parents can handle these with care.
Remember you can control everything with your patience.
Relax and let your child relax too.