♥️♥️♥️#motherhoodconfessions ♥️♥️♥️
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💆🏻Sometimes there is no way I can avoid getting into a shouting match with my son.
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Many times I keep doing mistakes being a parent.
(Tell me you do too and I will be more than happy🤣)
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💆🏻Sometimes I try to give a tough cometition to my son, when he goes through an emotional meltdown.
👉🏻Instead of responding to him in a softer voice and connecting with him immediately,
I try to become louder too and once the storm is over, I then realise, I am his mom and not a competitor.
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🤷🏻♀️If this has never happened with you, trust me you are an absolute "Angel-mommy"😆😘And lady, I envy you!!🙄
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💆🏻Half of the times, I forget to make my child emotionally stable by becoming an attentive listener first.
👉🏻I many times even forget to sit down to his level to offer him some emotional comfort before I start delivering him some logical lecture on behaviour!!🙄 .
💆🏻When it comes to disciplining or getting important daily chores done by my son,
(I am talking about our school-bus pick-up time crisis☠️here)
👉🏻I just end up yelling at him from across the room and expect him to finish his chores speedily!🙈
(Now as if he is an angel-baby!)
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🤷🏻♀️Respecting others work first, then by connecting to them with love & affection and asking them questions like,
could you please.... or I would love if you can....etc.
makes a huge difference right??
Ok! But unfortunately I am not myself following this!🙄🙈
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I think I am into my realisation phase currently,😂😆🤦🏻♀️I think I have become a wicked-mom from past few weeks!😈👻
And now I desperately want to mould myself into a better mom!
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💆🏻It is not possible to be a loving, nurturing, calm and patient mom 24*7 😝atleast while disciplining a child!
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👉🏻But I need to be a sensible and mindful mom while raising my precious tiny life I have been given by the almighty!😻
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🤷🏻♀️Tell me, I am not the only one who has turned into a wicked-mom! Lol🤣!
Ok just just tell me what's your experience handling a toddler or a preschooler's temper tantrums?
.
💆🏻Sometimes there is no way I can avoid getting into a shouting match with my son.
.
Many times I keep doing mistakes being a parent.
(Tell me you do too and I will be more than happy🤣)
.
💆🏻Sometimes I try to give a tough cometition to my son, when he goes through an emotional meltdown.
👉🏻Instead of responding to him in a softer voice and connecting with him immediately,
I try to become louder too and once the storm is over, I then realise, I am his mom and not a competitor.
.
🤷🏻♀️If this has never happened with you, trust me you are an absolute "Angel-mommy"😆😘And lady, I envy you!!🙄
.
💆🏻Half of the times, I forget to make my child emotionally stable by becoming an attentive listener first.
👉🏻I many times even forget to sit down to his level to offer him some emotional comfort before I start delivering him some logical lecture on behaviour!!🙄 .
💆🏻When it comes to disciplining or getting important daily chores done by my son,
(I am talking about our school-bus pick-up time crisis☠️here)
👉🏻I just end up yelling at him from across the room and expect him to finish his chores speedily!🙈
(Now as if he is an angel-baby!)
.
🤷🏻♀️Respecting others work first, then by connecting to them with love & affection and asking them questions like,
could you please.... or I would love if you can....etc.
makes a huge difference right??
Ok! But unfortunately I am not myself following this!🙄🙈
.
.
I think I am into my realisation phase currently,😂😆🤦🏻♀️I think I have become a wicked-mom from past few weeks!😈👻
And now I desperately want to mould myself into a better mom!
.
💆🏻It is not possible to be a loving, nurturing, calm and patient mom 24*7 😝atleast while disciplining a child!
.
👉🏻But I need to be a sensible and mindful mom while raising my precious tiny life I have been given by the almighty!😻
.
.
🤷🏻♀️Tell me, I am not the only one who has turned into a wicked-mom! Lol🤣!
Ok just just tell me what's your experience handling a toddler or a preschooler's temper tantrums?
...its very connected to me!! completely agree with u <b><span style="color:#3B5998;"> @5f6dfb04abe65c004692dc1b </span></b> .& very true <b> @616d9126ca67e40013aaf3e5 </b>; & <span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @63713f982338f60015eaa17b </b></span> ..<br>
many many times it happens..i got very angry on kids,, shouted on them..then i m crying!!!!! bcz i m thinking that why i do these alll.with little ones? specially , when they sleep, i saw their innocent face & feel , after today, i will never do it!!! but second; day, i do it again!!!!😐<br>
living with in laws, too many responsibility & lots of work pressured to do this with kids..bcz, kids are very mischievous & its our responsibility to learn them manners & good habits from childhood..
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I second Aditi. We r all human beings not angels. I too shout at my daughter but after that console her. If u do anything to them in few minutes they forgot and come looking after us. I just do the same.
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It really happens with most of us mom's..we too are humans..that too in this world which has become too demanding from even small kids..bottom of our hearts our kids are our world..so don't be sad dear.. don't blame yourself..my way is one scolding or disciplining act is followed by many hugs..kisses.. conversations..and the child realizes that mom loves me..it's just that she wants me to be a better person..
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Aditi Ahuja
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07 Jun 2018