#MIL
My mil is a widow. I respect her as a woman. She is way more good than other mils in the world but still not that gud in her own skin. I mean she wants to cook for us which i dont like bcoz i left my job so that i can take care of my home nd family by myself but since my mil have joined us she insists to cook. I let her do that untill she didnt taunt me that i do nothing. 2 days back i asked her not to cook anymore nd do baby sitting only. But As usual she feels that i m trying to control her or things at home while i give my baby to her to play with after giving her massage nd bath but she is not happy. She has a huge ego prblm. She wants to show me that my hubby is her son FIRST. But THEN i TOO would like to make it clr to her that he WAS her son. now he is my hubby FIRST nd then her son. She wants that my hubby shud come to sit in her room with my daughter when he is back from work. Aur is chakkar me main poore din akeli reh jati hu. She wants both baby nd her son to sit with her. Nd if i too sit there she starts correcting me for any faltu ki baat or starts passing comments or indirect taunt thats y i dont sit in her room ever. If i give her only my baby to play with she feels humiliated. Its been only 2 days i asked my hubby to spend his evening with me nd not with her mother nd today when my lo was alone with her she caught a daura or sadma types of frustration that y my hubby or his son didnt come to sit in her room🙄 and i came to know this by hearing her loud noise coming in our room (she was reading smthng gala faad faad k)Then i asked my hubby to go nd check whether shes ok or not. Wo month me 2 3 baar ese krti hain. Zor zor se chilla chilla k newspaper pdhti hain ya gane gati hain apni language me pta nhi kya kya😅 thats y mujhe apni baby ko unke sath akela chhodne me b dr lgta h. Socho yaar itni zir zir se chillati hain wo iska bache pr kitna bura asar pdta h😠
I mean when wud she understand yaar that his son is married now he has his wife his daughter his own responsibilities of home nd all? She has lots of things to engage herself in like watching tv(i dont do) reading newspaper (i dont do) play with baby, going market daily for groceries for herself then what does she wants now? I m thinking to ask my hubby to go to her room only for a limited time duration so that she'll not feel offended(i hope so) but i wont allow him to leave me alone for whole evening. We r not even sleeping together for last one month (bcoz my lo co sleeps with me..) that her mother also knows. Nd still she has this kind of attitude. Samne se wo bhot seedhi bnti hain but pith pichhe wo back biting se lekar planning nd plotting tk sb krti hain. What shud i do? Shud i ignor her nd continue doing what i want to or...?
I know nobody likes to feel lonely or left but one should have patience too. Haan agar main deliberately esa kuch kr rhi hoti ki unhe akela feel krwana h ya unhe hurt krna h to alag baat thi lekin wo assume kr leti hain khud se hi ki main esa kr rhi hu jbki esa bilkul nhi h. Main unhe kbi hurt nhi krna chahti aur na hi kbi krti hu its she herself who assumes wrong things nd creat fuss.
Kya krun yaar y she is not happy? @neha sharma
@shipra dang
My mil is a widow. I respect her as a woman. She is way more good than other mils in the world but still not that gud in her own skin. I mean she wants to cook for us which i dont like bcoz i left my job so that i can take care of my home nd family by myself but since my mil have joined us she insists to cook. I let her do that untill she didnt taunt me that i do nothing. 2 days back i asked her not to cook anymore nd do baby sitting only. But As usual she feels that i m trying to control her or things at home while i give my baby to her to play with after giving her massage nd bath but she is not happy. She has a huge ego prblm. She wants to show me that my hubby is her son FIRST. But THEN i TOO would like to make it clr to her that he WAS her son. now he is my hubby FIRST nd then her son. She wants that my hubby shud come to sit in her room with my daughter when he is back from work. Aur is chakkar me main poore din akeli reh jati hu. She wants both baby nd her son to sit with her. Nd if i too sit there she starts correcting me for any faltu ki baat or starts passing comments or indirect taunt thats y i dont sit in her room ever. If i give her only my baby to play with she feels humiliated. Its been only 2 days i asked my hubby to spend his evening with me nd not with her mother nd today when my lo was alone with her she caught a daura or sadma types of frustration that y my hubby or his son didnt come to sit in her room🙄 and i came to know this by hearing her loud noise coming in our room (she was reading smthng gala faad faad k)Then i asked my hubby to go nd check whether shes ok or not. Wo month me 2 3 baar ese krti hain. Zor zor se chilla chilla k newspaper pdhti hain ya gane gati hain apni language me pta nhi kya kya😅 thats y mujhe apni baby ko unke sath akela chhodne me b dr lgta h. Socho yaar itni zir zir se chillati hain wo iska bache pr kitna bura asar pdta h😠
I mean when wud she understand yaar that his son is married now he has his wife his daughter his own responsibilities of home nd all? She has lots of things to engage herself in like watching tv(i dont do) reading newspaper (i dont do) play with baby, going market daily for groceries for herself then what does she wants now? I m thinking to ask my hubby to go to her room only for a limited time duration so that she'll not feel offended(i hope so) but i wont allow him to leave me alone for whole evening. We r not even sleeping together for last one month (bcoz my lo co sleeps with me..) that her mother also knows. Nd still she has this kind of attitude. Samne se wo bhot seedhi bnti hain but pith pichhe wo back biting se lekar planning nd plotting tk sb krti hain. What shud i do? Shud i ignor her nd continue doing what i want to or...?
I know nobody likes to feel lonely or left but one should have patience too. Haan agar main deliberately esa kuch kr rhi hoti ki unhe akela feel krwana h ya unhe hurt krna h to alag baat thi lekin wo assume kr leti hain khud se hi ki main esa kr rhi hu jbki esa bilkul nhi h. Main unhe kbi hurt nhi krna chahti aur na hi kbi krti hu its she herself who assumes wrong things nd creat fuss.
Kya krun yaar y she is not happy? @neha sharma
@shipra dang
