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Mine is a love marriage. He is 7 yrs older than me. Nobody from his family ever came forwrd to talk to my parents for our marriage. My parents were totally against our relationship which was already 7 years old bcoz he is from caste. One day they locked me in our home and warned me of going out of home. I ran away nd court married with him. Then my parents arranged our marriage only for the sake of showing our marriage to our society. We were living happily together. Then my MIL joined us after 2 yrs of marriage and today is the day that he takes me for granted he has no time no interest no energy to spend time with me. Not even on weekends. He thinks/shows that fulfiling my basic needs like roti kapda makan is his duty but i first want his attention then even if he'll buy me these things i wont mind...

But now he sleeps in a separate room, doesn't sits with me and talks to me anytime. Always accuses me judges me. He has changed a lot. I tried ny best to make him understand what's bothering me but to no avail.

Ab main apne mumy k ghar aa gai hu but he never calls me. Not even to ask abt his daughter. Mere hazar baar kehne k baad kbhi kbhi ek call kr dete hain but call pr b waise hi baat krte hain mujhse. Sirf formality bch gai h ab hnare beech me. Koi love nhi koi romance nhi koi care nhi. Unhe lgta h ki bs meri monetary needs poori kr dena hi unko zimmedari h.

Pta nhi wo ese q ho gye hain. Mn krta h dovorce le lun. But sirf apni daughter ki wajah se ye sb jhel rhi hu.
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Meri mil jaisi bhi hain mujhe unse koi dikkat nhi h jb tk mere husband mere sath hain but jbse uka behaviour mere iye change hua tbhi se mujhe ye sari orblms ho rhi hain.<br> U r ryt durga salvi. Main bhot lmbe wakt se work from home job search kr rhi hu kafi sare kaam kiye bhi but sbme kuch na kuch dikkat aa rhi h. Kahin job satisfaction nhi aa rha h to kahin payment ki dikkt...<br> Meri qualification k according mujhe koi job nhi mil rhi h jo main ghar se kr skun. <br> Agar main fir se financially independent ho jaun to mujhe koi frk nhi pdega agar mere husband mujhe attention nhi bhi denge to. Aur esa hi hona b chahiye akhir q koi ek bnda dusre bnde k pichhe bhagta rhe. <br> Main ab khud khush rehna chahti hu na kisi aur ki wajah se.<br> Sari prblm ka sol yhi h ki main independent bn jaun. But u know what i was working in an MNC b4 marriage but mere husband ne kaha ki he prefers a HW so smhow i agrred and left my career behin but jb inki mumy aa gai to inka brtaw bdl gya. <br> Mtlb yaar mumy k sath me rehne se mumy pr itna pyar aa gya. Jb wo sth me nhi rehti thi tb to kbhi zikr b nhi krte the unka. Kya ********* h yaar ye.<br> Job krne me mujhe koi dikkat nhi thi but ab baby k sath job krna bhot toigh h jbtk mujhe husband ka support and assurity nhi milti ki meri tarah wo b baby ka poora dhayan rkh skte hain.

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Durga salvi

Anon.first to koi bhi husband apni mother ke khilaf kuch galat nahi sunta.aap kuch time ke liye hubby se baat mat kro apne apko strong bnao.aaj apki family apke sath hai agar hubby apko pyar krte hai to vo phir se apke pas ayenge.agar aap well educated hai to aap job start kro apka mind fresh rahega n self depend bno.life itni easy nahi hubby ko only mes kro apni fellings.agar vo apse baat nahi krte to bar bar call mat kro.sb kuch dhere dhere thik ho jayega.aap beti ka khyal rakho.muje pta hai jha tak love marrige me thode problm ati hai n mil ki vajah se bhi.koi bhi baat ho hamse share kro jyada tension mat lo.mil se kisi tarh baat krne ki koshish kro.

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Yaar chhodo yaar insb ka koi sol hi nhi h. Leaving it on TIME.

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Q nhi acha lgta h yaar in logon ko? Shadj se pehle to kbi naam nhi lete the apni mumy ka mere samne ab mumy mujhse jada imo ho gai?? Huh! To mujhse shadi q ki? Mujhe b to apne parents pyare the but unse jada maine inse pyar kiya uar mujhe ab kya mil rha h?

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sonam patel

Anon... Aap mummy k baare me kuch bolo hi mat... Hubby ki mom h na...Use acha ni lgta hoga. Kbi kbi hume chizo ko ignore karna padta h. Kosish karo apni MIL se bond karne ka... Almost sara prob solve ho jaega. <br> Hum sab k life me problems hoti h... Differences hoti h MIL k saath but agar aap bologe alag rehte h toh apke hubby ko bura lg skta h. <br> And aap ache se baith k baat kijye ek din... Apni problems btaye ye aur hubby se unki problem puchye. Sab thik ho jaega.

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