💛MIXED FEELINGS ABOUT PREGNANCY💛 We have an idea about motherhood which tells us that every woman is overjoyed when she finds out she is going to have a baby. She spends the pregnancy dreaming happy thoughts about the baby. Love is instantaneous, bonding like glue. This is one side of the picture. Almost every pregnant women also have some negative feelings, too. Early on nausea and vomiting can be mild or severe. Clothes that were loose become tight, clothes that were tight becomes unwearable. A mother who truly wants another child may still be disturbed with sudden doubts about whether she will have the time, the physical energy, or the unlimited reserves of love that she imagines will be called for. Or the inner doubts may start with the father, who feels somewhat neglected his wife becomes more and more preoccupied with the children. In either case, one spouse's disguise soon as the other one feeling dispirited too. Each parent may have less to give the other. These reactions aren't inevitable, but they do occur in the very best of parents. They are part of the normal mixed feelings during pregnancy, and in the great majority of cases, they are temporary. It may be easier to work through these feelings early before the baby arrives. Parents who have had no negative feelings during pregnancy may have to face them for the first time after their babies are born, at a point where their emotional receives are fully taken up in baby care. How many of you relate through this?? Do mention in the comments below✅
Naiyya Singh
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12 Sep 2020