As the days past, I was learning to deal with new role of Motherhood. My Husband stayed with me through thick and thin. He was my strength and did not let me down at any moment.
While all parenting and health issues continued, BabyChakra was my saviour. When, my husband was away at Job and I had no one for help at home, the Lovely Moms and Experts at Babychakra guided me. I wished, I was aware of the App, while I was pregnant too.
Anyway I continued to be strong, did what I can do best for my Baby and hired help for cooking at home. So, I spent all day with my baby, giving the best I could.
After, my baby completed one year, my leaves at Office were all over and even Additional Sick leaves which I got on Health ground were over.
Being, a bright and ambitious woman, I was not willing to give up my career. I started looking for good day-care in and around my area. But was not able to find anything satisfactory. The once which I liked were not practical and were out of my Budget.
Later I got a maid at home, to take care of the baby. I did this purposely, so that baby can start recognizing other people too and can stay away from me for smaller time gaps. I used to sit in other room and ask maid to give food to the baby (which I prepared myself) so that he can start adjusting to new routine. In a month, I could see, the difference and I knew my baby is strong like me and can manage few hours away from me.
However, SAFETY was still in question. My heart was not willing to leave Baby alone with Maid at home. I thought of CCT as an option, but continued to explore more options’ kept mentally preparing me and my baby for the transition.
Looking at my desperate efforts to get back to my job, my husband himself spoke to my In Laws, who live -4- hours away from Mumbai to come and join us so that I can take charge of my career. My father in law runs a small Business but they agreed for my sake.
I am blessed to have such supportive In laws. Only if you have strong support system at home that you can plan to take daring steps. Now, I live with my in laws and Maid continues to come to help throughout the day.
My mother In laws are proud of me and kudos to my father in law who travels between Mumbai and Nasik every week to continue his Business.
I recently got promotion too and doing well in my Job which I love so dearly. It’s just not work for me but something which I love to do and gives me sense of self-worth. Every person is different and wants to deal with things differently. I wanted to have balance between my work and family and I am successfully able to do so with help of my Husband and my Family! With this my Takeover Comes to End!
I went through all your posts and I've got to say this.... your journey has been truly amazing...Hugs and blessings to you and your family!
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18 Sep 2018
Dolly singh
Vry interesting and twisted takeover😁. .love to read your courageous story..
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15 Sep 2018
Akanchha Dubey
Very inspiring..stay <u>strong</u>
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15 Sep 2018
Shreya Singh
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Thank <u>u</u>
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15 Sep 2018
sonam patel
This is the best message you gave... Do whatever makes you happy. Moms usually forget their happiness and feels incomplete. They need to understand that they too are important. And yes what you in-laws did is commendable. Stay blessed!
Sweta
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18 Sep 2018