#mommytakeover
Post 1

🙏🏽Namaste and a big hello to all my Babychakra family members !
This is Neha Vij from Noida ( a struggling, trying-to-be-perfect mom like you all who feels immense happiness in sharing personal experiences with my Baby chakra buddies about this beautiful journey called motherhood)
❤️Thank you Babychakra for considering me good enough for this take over today. I feel obliged and blessed to get this opportunity.
💕Well over the past few months of my association with Baby Chakra, I have made some wonderful friends here and feel like sharing with them whatever productive ( if at all) I am able to do on daily basis, that may be of help to my Babychakra buddies.

✅Intro post #post1
A quick intro about myself ( will not take much time)-
I hail from a small town in UP - Saharanpur ( known for designer wood work) and now settled in Noida.
⭐️An HR professional ( by qualification) and a creative person ( by choice) , I am a 34 year old hardcore Punjabi married in a Typical baniya Family. So it’s Neha- Vij- Jindal now :) . So I am married to a man who looks and behaves like more of a Punjabi now ( my Jadoo ;) ). 🕵🏻‍♀️Ankush is a loving husband and a caring father, he too is growing up in this journey of fatherhood and I can see lot of positive changes happening around since the day Krishiv was born.
👩‍🏫I am A SAHM currently ( with no grievances) to a 22 months old naughty boy (who is just on the verge of turning me completely insane with his hyper active maddening toddler activities -- that’s why I chose to write this intro yesterday night after he slept ;)). ——-well, why to regret when i always prayed for a smart intelligent baby while he was in womb, now that i have one i should rather be thankful than cribbing , right ?
💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️Talking about parents side .........................,,.,,...............,??
Hey why only my mom’s name is coming to my mind? Well, moms are special, isn’t it? No one can beat their love. My mom is my strength, my inspiration, my everything!
🙆‍♀️Sometimes I feel I won’t be able to survive even a day if she’s gone ( so much of emotional dependence I have on her) .
🧛‍♂️Dads are special too, I am sure . But i don’t have one :( . He chose heaven over us. Why? I still ask God
Why did i lose him when I needed him the most? No answers yet .But it’s fine. I know he’s watching me from up and blessing me always ( thou this void can never be filled).He was a cardiac patient since I was small, had a by pass surgery done while I was doing graduation, but the way he left us suddenly - still sends shivers down my spine! ( And baby chakra today as you have made me recall everything- those blurred memories with him, tears are rolling down my eyes and i really want to meet him, talk to him and hug him :(
🤷🏼‍♂️🤷🏼‍♂️I have a sibling ( baby bro) - 6 years younger who is now settled in his life and has a family of his own so it’s mostly formal now ( not like the childhood sibling bonding days which will never come back)- and it’s ok. The bro-sis bond is eternal.
💁🏻‍♀️I stay in a nuclear set up in Noida and have a big family in Haryana ( my in laws). We keep on visiting them on occasions and festivals or when we feel like.

✅✅My childhood has been wonderful being a meritorious school student thru out, being my teachers’ favorite and apple of my parents’ eyes ( i still tease my brother that I was mom dads fav child and they loved me more).
I am thankful to my parents who helped in making me strong and believed in my dreams.They encouraged me in everything i took up. It was therefore I grew up with these strong personality traits, topped thru out my graduation years, participated in beauty pageants in school and college and won most of them, was proficient in dancing, cooking and designing my own clothes, had friends for a lifetime who loved me to the core.LIFE WAS AWESOME
and....
⭐️20s ( 2001-2010) was the time when every one wanted to do MBA. Parents were crazy too about it.
It was my mom's dream that I clear one of the most difficult MBA entrance exams and get admitted to a top ranked Business school. I worked hard, burnt my sweat and IT HAPPENED !🎉🎉🎉
I cleared the exam and took admission in one of the leading MBA institutes in India.
Being extremely career oriented and a girl with strong professional aspirations, I had already taken my first step towards my goal.
👼👼LIFE WAS GOOD. I felt I was blessed with the best of both worlds.
UNTIL....the major setback !☹️☹️☹️☹️

🙁Day 1 of MBA --- Entire world shaken & Life turned upside down !

✅Stay here with me as I write post no. 2 to know more about this -
”My Rise, and fall, And Rise again ”🎈🎈

Stay tuned !
Much Love