#mommytakeover (post 2)

I am a strong believer of destiny. I believe "jab jab jo jo hona hai...tab tab so so hota hai". We both (my husband and me) are into love marriage and we know each other inside out. Being married at early times of our jobs we decided to take atleast 3 years for planning our baby.

Everything was fine till 2 yrs and after that we had this so called "societal pressure " to such an extent,especially from my in law's side that we stopped calling and receiving calls from home. We were actually torchered emotionally a lot and this 1 yr was not less than a mess for our relationship where one of us used to get frustrated by the parents and we used to have fights over it.

When one fine day (3rd marriage anniversary, 19th oct) I gave up and said to my huby let's have a baby.

To my shock...he said yes to it. I couldn't sleep that night thinking if he really wants one or just the pressure making him said so??

😦I really didn't want pressure to be the reason behind my pregnancy but love💖

😩2015 -2016😩

Everyone was expecting a magic!! Like every other day we were supposed to answer the question "good news hai kya?" We were so fed up...and days started to pass..

1 month

2 months

3 months

5month

Result : negative

My Mil was loosing her cool and finally she said - I think you need treatment😳

👀 I was not against the treatment but the tone was so heartwrenching that I couldn't take it any more.

My husband decided not to visit our native town till I get pregnant. We started keeping our phones switched off.

All this was increasing my tension and blood pressure. I started looking weak. ( everyone around was telling me to stay happy if I want to concieve) but my own family was not understanding the stress I was going through.

😔I decided to get treatment after 6 months of trial. I went to gynaecologist and had a series of tests which came fine and I was prescribed folic acid only.

😞meanwhile I had to listen stories by my sil about " since I waited for 3 yrs now I will not be able to concieve". These words were so scary...I cried uncounted nights after thinking all these things.

😐how people can be so rude to other human being...

😌the only support I had was my mom.dad and husband.

😀I conceived after a month of taking folic acid tablets. ( September 2016)

😐 I wish no one had to face what I faced before conceiving my baby.
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How much time did you take to concieve? Share your thoughts about societal pressure on a woman who herself is struggling to bring a new life on this planet.

M waiting!!

👆👆👆👆in the pic: me!! 6 weeks 4 days pregnant. Standing almost on top of lohagarh fort pune.yes...I climbed my self at that height😎😆😆