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..Second POST -My Husband-

My friends are really my strength...
with this journey I got a special friend ..we met at our old office and mingled well ..
. the so called looking mature guy whom I was discussing my past crush became my best buddy and then my life partner ...

Yes my husband ! ;, he is from south and m from central India , but he is very much Hindi , and when our thoughts melted , and we started feeling for each other this NORH SOUTH DIRECTIONS hardly mattered. I was welcomed in his family , and we stay together..

My husband was never my boy friend ( for which I screwed myself) ;he was always a friend , as he never proposed me, I remember when I was 26 and every one was pressurising me for marriage and some unusual condition was going on my maternal family which demanded me to get married as early as possible... I was waiting for his proposal.

;He gave me all hints except saying;I love u;and I want to marry ..Finally on a day when I was very sad I asked ...why are u worried about me,,.. Do you love Me ???; then he said yes..(oh god !!! I felt like kuch to bola) .

Since then we are together. My Husband is a simple and extra ordinary man like my father , he is less emotional , more logical and less expressive , and secretive to his talents (just opposite of me :) .He is placed in Raipur so our family is here..In our relationship its been always that I bring surprises and roses and his ;expressions are different practical but admirable.

Our marriage day was very different from others . I got married two times...Yes u read it right...but with the same guy.. :)
We did court marriage first , here m sharing a pic of it (some how I managed saree that day ;).. I never shared this with any one but sharing it today with my BC family.Then social marriage.. My date was fixed for 3rd May 2013, and when my inlaws started distributing cards before a month a very unusual incident happened in mymaternal ;family ... some of my relatives said. Don't get married wait for a year..bla bla...but on my inlaws end things were already prepared for marriage, telling them to stop because wasn't possible and in this way ..we decided we will not cancel our marriage we will marry !!

When there are two different communities involve in marriage and you don't have mom,,,there is no one to collaborate , no one to unite them, every relative of mine had different ego temperaments etc, and hardly any one helped me in my shaadi stuff...I remembering staying in hotel ..after taking leave from office of baroda and doing shopping till last hour of my marriage.. only my father stood with me, and he was there with me. I missed my mom so much !! cried at every step .When I was going to parlour to became bride I looked back there are no members from my maternal side for welcoming baratis I prayed ..kuch to karo.. god... and when I came back I saw few people ..I just Relaxed !! ki shaadi to nipat jayegi ab...
When our feres started ,,,every one came in cheerful mood and we were most happy couple that day...my husband cooperated so well .