#mommytakeover ;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;; Shri Ganesheya; namah ... So with this i start my morning;; ..;;;; 🙏.;;;;; First post -
Hello, Namaste to Darling moms and doting daddies and super cool experts .. My name is Aradhana Sharma Mudgala ( Lamba naam hai thoda ...pur main bahutchoti hu ;) .. I am currently based in Raipur ...Mom of super hero fighter ''Bunny"(Sarvin ..his official name :) .
Let me first start with little about ,myself .. I am basically from Raipur, completed my studies and then for growth in Job and as my maternal family shifted Gujarat I moved to Baroda and then after marriage I came here again ...as hubbys job here.
I am bit both extrovert and introvert , this helps me in balancing my levels :)
Before Marriage ,,ME :) I always lived in nuclear family , I am youngest in my family . I am blessed to receive so much love from my parents and elder brother when I was young...and I am always proud of the learnings and blessings I have been . I was so shy as a child and very introvert , however i grew up as a chatter box that no one could believe i was ever 'shy' ..Destiny turned then..As I was close to receive result of my 12th standards , my mom was diagnosed with critical illness and unfortunately we lost her before she could see my entrance in college. I was a very bright student in my high school , so seeing my result for the last time she dreamt of me doing some thing good in life and I believe I will make her proud some day :) It was my teenage days I was without mom, as I was always with her I coudnt imagine my life without her, as a family we were brokern from heart but ,my father did every possible thing to bring me up further and;my life.. ;Those teenage tantrums, the ;immature arguments , my irresponsible behaviour everything was handled by my father and also ;my brother has showered immense love on me to come out of the trauma. We unluckily have no women around family on both sides as we were always nuclear and those who were there were (relatives ) were really far. So; grew up and completed my studies; , Moved to different location for job and groomed my self. I remember my father washing my clothes , caring me ,cooking for me when maid was absent often to make sure I score well in exams and I do well, he became my next mom. My father is a simple and an extraordinaory man , I have seen him going through several up dows including losing her partner , losing a son but he never gave up... always had a affirmative approach about life. M proud to have a father like him in my lfe.
I;; have lot of friends , I am blessed to have some very close friends n my life , I miss warmth of sister mother that I got from my friends. I have seen most of part of my life as when I have received unconditional love and affection blessings people outside relatives, when I needed support most my friends have been real blessings in my life.. they were my guiding partner as well.;; Unlike mommies I see here who are expert in cooking , DIY , and every girlish thing (though I cook well;) I feel complex for not being amazingly good; as you guys are ... For my child I manage to engage him creatively through Rhymes , educational toys and fun we have together thru mommy madness but I don't have that art of craft as here some mommies have ... I learn and manage but I know my hands doesn't move well on yeh mehndi laga do, silai kar do, and koi craft bana do...My stupid secret even after 5 years of marriage I don't know how to drap a saree , main hafne lag jati hu saari pehnne koi bol de to...Itna bada kapda ..lapetu kaise; ;); So what I do in any function I directly go parlour and I ask kych mat karo saari drap kar do...and then I manage to wear in functions.. but I don't tell anyone,,,Parlour se pehna hai :). ;Rather I have small other talents . Everything which is music is where my soul is ...I was ragged in my college , seniors asked me to Entertain them I started singing , they clapped , so I came to know; I have a voice and I can sing publicly. I was singer in all events of my college;but never got chance to learn music earlier ;I had passion for Dance which I still do but;after a certain age I was not encouraged to dance as in our maternal families they;don't find dancing as a good thing for girls. How ever when I got married my husband encouraged me and I remember;in my past work place , there was a Pan;INDIA dance competition where;I ;won second price on performing as classical number , I was on clouds that was the one of the most beautiful day of my life...since then I thought I should learn music and despite all breaks and barriers I;managed to give two exams of visharad after marriage...and lets c what happens this year. I just came to know that age is just numbers and all my dreams can come true... ..................
M really funny :) People around me find me funny , as I have some on the spot comic sense , I mimic well, so my collegues often ask me ,,,iska mimicry kardo uska.. I feel very stupid as some of them did friendship to entertain themselves :); BUT here I cant show you guys that ;) ..Acha chalo kabhi; BC Moms meet karnege Raipur main ya when I will be able to come Mumbai...I will have fun with all of you...So what are your talents? what is stopping you to live upto your dreams ? @Priya Sood
Was super busy today so couldn't comment earlier but I am reading it now..sorry for your lost.. I can understand what you must have gone through..but you are brave <u>dear</u>
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01 Jun 2018
sonam patel
I have some of the similar talents like still I don't know how to drape saree... I just run away from wearing a saree. I too m not amazingly good like others. And wow what the saree hack. Thanks for this...Haha. I m going to follow.
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01 Jun 2018
swati upadhyay
Beautifully written!
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01 Jun 2018
Nisha
Both; Papa and daughter are very courageous. I also don't know lots of them.; I am; learning with my dd.;
Aradhana Sharma
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02 Jun 2018