My baby always looks at me n always starts crying. I have resigned from my job n im at home from past 3 days. And my in law says when im not around my kid stays gud n gains some amount of weight but now I am at home hence,he always sees me around n starts crying. Please help me as to what can i do
Sharon Mathew
24 Jan 2017
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Sonal S
Hi Sharon, it must be terrible to feel that you are the reason for your child's crying. Please don't give in to this thought.
Please give your child sometime to adapt to a situation. See if you cover him more or the contrary, to what your in laws do when you are not around. Some children of working moms cry due to anxiety of mom leaving. The first thing to do is to stop getting anxious about this yourself. Spend some observing time watching your baby being taken care by your in laws. See what's different. But, the most important thing is to spend happy time with your child. Avoid doing any activity that either you or baby doesn't like doing together. Do this for a week and see how your child is doing.
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24 Jan 2017
Prisha Lalwani
upto 2 years of age children cry a lot seeing their mother mainly b cause they know that if they cry mummy will do anything for them. I used to manage my twins alone and as long as papa was there or someone else was there they will be nice and manageable but when dad is not home they create hell for me. someone told me the same thing, they cry to get attention and love. it is a phase and it will change. don't worry!!
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24 Jan 2017
Sharon Mathew
thanks for giving me the confidence and helping. thanks all
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24 Jan 2017
Prithvi Balaji
Sharon don't forget that he was in your womb for 9+ months and he feels secured with you. he fears you will leave him and go coz you used to work. it takes a while for that to go. give him some time. ignore what your in-laws comment
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24 Jan 2017
BabyChakra
Hey Sharon. hugs ! first of all just be confident and believe in the decision you have made for ur baby. Here is what our MomStar Keerti Bhatia has to say.
Oh! Kids! Don't you worry at all!!! Your child is complaining to you for being away!!! Let him cry, and when he cries keep talking to him and tell mumma is sorry that she was away now mumma will always be with you. Don't worry at all!!! Remember, child is the father of man, and their tactics are mind boggling! Chin up! Enjoy your time with the little badmash.
Sonal S
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24 Jan 2017