My daughter 4 year old is becoming much stubborn she was a very intelligent baby a brilliant learner till she was of 3 now I am worried about her changing behavior she Tickles on little things shouting crying is being her usually behavior left concentrating on what I tell to do and runs away from me even when I remain with her she kept demanding as she want phone net expensive cloths shoes accessories though she have already but when she sees things near anyone else she behaves like snitching shouting at others cry ,yell, for this takes me much time to explain her she is behaving weird these days that became reason of my stress irritations, her performance in school getting low day by day
her sleep reduced she just sit or play anything.. but dislike to sleep in 24 hours she takes hardly 9 hour sleep I am worried
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Talk to her find out what's irritating her. Take her to orphanage and show her that there are kids who don't have parents and they don't have everything as she has. Make her understand that throwing tantrums is not going to get her things. If she wants anything all she has to do is ask nicely for it. Appreciate her whenever she behaves well ask other family members too, this will encourage her to behave well. Please check with her if everything is going on finely at school.
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First of all.. Be positive and Have patience. Most of the parents ( including me) have given kids more than they require. They don't know the value of things. Not to blame kids...they are young and don't understand. She is yelling and shouting...maybe she is imitating someone ( may be you or some other person at home or at school) . Kids feel it's cool to follow those ppl who have influence over them. Earlier you have bought things , whenever she have asked may be. So kids will be in a state of thinking that... what ever I desire..I can get it. Tell her gently. You too yelling may not solve the problem. Whom she love more.. you or any other relative..Let them understand her limits and your limits as wel. Don't force her to read. Inspire her. Don't buy anything..if she shout or yell. My daughter too have picked something like this from other kid. She is good is grasping and understanding. I just showed the poor ppl..who stay behind our apartment and explained their condition and said how lucky she is to have so many things. Once I even gave her favourite teddy bear to my maid...when she throwed. Said she should value things...orelse things will be given to those. who value. I know it's frustrating. .but have to try many ways and keep her on track. Take your baby out. spend sometime and calmly ask. what is irritating her?
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Rhituparna Mitra
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04 Jun 2017