Yes varsha..thats y i asked to ignore since i too not hold grudges n never ask anyone to but there was a point raised that she may hav a reason for her behaviour...

Dear Tanuja, what others must have done is not in anyone's control.Whats is in our control is our own 'peace of mind'. Having grudges won't allow that.<br> Motherhood is a beautiful journey which needs healthy body and mind.

<a href="http://app.babychakra.com/user/108159"><b><font color ="#3b5998">Sheeba Vijesh</font></b></a> <a href="http://app.babychakra.com/user/158648"><b><font color ="#3b5998">Akshaya Naresh</font></b></a>; <a href="http://app.babychakra.com/user/114254"><b><font color ="#3b5998">Varsha</font></b></a>; i agree we shudnt judge people but really had we been in her place wat we wud hv done&#128529;..I think if she is genuine person she shud hv visited once and talked about her fears or restrictions if any...she for once shud hv said dont worry everything wil b fine..if not personally then on call or chats or anything..if the reason behind her behaviour is her motherhood then she shud understand how the other who has lost her child must be going thru n wat impact her behaviour is hving on her..i obey my elders too (wen it comes to the baby) and take their fears in consideration but if they involve puting humanity aside i dont do that..

Well, I would suggest 'Let Go'. Because many times it's not one own decision but others (elders) are involve in it.May be she was advised so by elders of her family. And as an 'expectant mother' she gone with a flow of what's 'elder says is right'.<br> Enjoy your motherhood journey and if she congrats you, just be normal.<br> Give your anger a direction of positivity of forgiveness and hopes !<br> Best Wishes For Motherhood Journey !<br>

Agree with <font color ="#3b5998"><b> @6372999217d2c800158d8bec </b></font>anon.I completely understand your feelings.But maybe she didn't want to hurt you and remind you about your; past.We never know what her intention was.So,its better not to judge<u>.</u>Anyways,let that not affect you now.Many congrats on your pregnancy.Stay happy.Blessings your way.&#128151;