My parents r in Mumbai nd in laws r in Kerala . In our custom , during 7th month I should go 2 my own house. As it's a litle far nd my In lwas r not intrsetd in sending me so far , in 7th month I came 2 my aunt's house ( dad's sist). Now i have 2 b here till my baby's baptsm.
In this house my uncle nd aunt is there. They r very old. All the time they r fighting themselves nd showerng very bad words. Even though I m not included in that fight or not fghtng with them ,I m hearing all these things. Will this affect my baby?; After delvry too i will b here for 3 months. Baby too will hear this. Will it affect my lil one?
Merline Joffy
23 Nov 2017
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Merline Joffy
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @5fedec01cccb6d0014097596 </b></font> my in laws follow all the kerala customs nd my hubby too. He won't listen what I m telng, even its a mater of his baby. In 8th month I can't go 2 In laws house. Once I finish 8th month, I will go 2 my hubbys home nd till delivery i wil b der. But after delvry again I have 2 come <u>here</u>
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23 Nov 2017
Merline Joffy
<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616d8f33ca67e40013aaf1eb </b></font> whenever they start , I used 2 go my room nd shut down there; . M tryng 2 b away from there. Will try with head phones nd reading. Good idea 👍👍
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23 Nov 2017
Rebecca Prakash
Oh Merline I went through this when I was just 3 months pregnant my MIL came to our house with her SIL (mentally ill) to take care of me as my mom went to our home town for few days. Oh my god worst days of my life because this mentally bua ji uses all bad words and abuses my MIL and my MIL in return.; End of 3rd week I become so depressed and sick and then they left, this is definitely not good and I also believe the baby reacts to every mood the mother goes through. Why follow this custom now? Why don't you get back to ur in laws house? Try discussing with your parents and husband then take a decision.
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23 Nov 2017
Priti Singh
Hey merline.. Did u try discussing d same wid ur in laws stating d fight problm... Its best to stay away from quarrels or anything negative..<br>
If no way out.. Then its best to put on ur headphone n listen to soothing musics...whenvr they fight..or jus go for a walk to a garden or park.. .. Come back when they r done... Read good books..n alwaz talk positive to ur baby.. Tk cr dear ☺️
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23 Nov 2017
Neelam sinoliya
U think positive ur lil will positive dont take tnsn avoid this ... enjoy ur pragnecy ...that moment will not come
Merline Joffy
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23 Nov 2017