Our bond from pre-baby to post-baby:
This is the story of every couple... Rather, i would say, Every couple has its own different story. The life, actually change, after the birth of child. In some cases, the couple starts fight after the birth of baby, their love flew away, as they started behaving panic to raise the baby. In other cases, the couple's understanding levels increase.
In my case, when i got married, i was working with private bank and got transfered to the city where my husband was working with an MNC. Sudden change in life, but it was beautiful. My husband used to drop me before his office and pick me from bank after his office. Sometimes, he has to wait for me,even for an hour. He then came inside the bank through ATM gate (Bank closed at 4pm for the public, internal work continue till Eod reports come out, sometimes i got free at 9pm). He became friends with my colleagues. My friends in bank used to tease us as love birds. One year flew like nothing. My husband got new job in new city. Me too in the same company. But this time, it was different because our shift timings has started. I work in the day shift and my husband in the night shift. Unknowingly, the communication between us decreased which cause frustration and fights between us. For some time, we continued like this but when we realise that on weekends too, we have nothing to share with each other.  In other words, i would say, we have lost that spice in our relation. So, i decided to quit the job. However, it was a hard decision for me because it was my first condition to my father before marrige that i will do job after my marrige, so find a guy according to that. But priority changes with time. I have no other option but to quit the job. 
That was the time we need some one to cherish our relation. And the  married couple whatelse needed other than a baby. Finally, when my daughter came in our life, we both felt that spark in our life again. Our understanding with each other came back. Like, he understands that i am tired whole day doing household and with my daughters care, he takes care of her after he came home till she sleeps. I admire him for this, knowingly, he is also tired for whole day in office. We do the stuffs of my daughter like eating, bathing together. He do oil massage her, and gave her bath and i took care of her after that. I cook for her and he fed her. 
We both enjoy each moment with her together. We enjoy, watching her sleep for hours. If i enjoy the whole week with her when my husband is in the office, he enjoys on the weekends with her. I really really appreciate and admire him for this. 
Our bond has increased after my daughter has arrived in our life. And we are loving it.
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Pooja Garg.