Hey Anon. How are you feeling dear? We are all here for you. Just give us a shout to tell us what you upto this morning ?

My story is similar to <a href="http://app.babychakra.com/user/137908"><b><font color ="#3b5998">Revauthi Rajamani</font></b></a> <br> similar surgeries and similar infection and similar dying..<br> And nobody can help with the baby..the way u will do..<br> And when my husband tried to help...i felt even miserable that why cant i take care of my baby myself!<br> Either way...help..or no help..<br> Hormones play role in upsetting us..and causing postpartun depression...never thnk of dying..hang in for a year...later thngs wil luk bttr

Oh ! I have tears running down my cheeks after reading your post. I wish I could do something to ease you baby. Hugs. See it&rsquo;s important to discuss with your husband. Communication plays a very important role in strengthening the relationship. It&rsquo;s not the case with just you, but most of us. In our society , men are brought up like that that they don&rsquo;t feel household or children as primary responsibility. I understand we as wives have expectations that the husbands should have the self realisations and assist us without asking. But that might not be the case always . It&rsquo;s not bad to ask for assistance. Sometimes they don&rsquo;t even realise that their actions are hurting. So it&rsquo;s better to tell them and resolve all your issues. Things can get better with this .

I wrote it just to help you feel better, be positive

Hi anon<br> Let me tell you something, I went through the same phase post my second delivery, I had two c sections, and another surgery to remove appendix, one more post second delivery, I almost died with styphylococcus infection close to sepsis post c section, I couldn't bear the pain, between had my jus born on my lap, feeding, diaper changing, pees, poos no time to sleep, elder one's school, education, I fell into postpartum depression. This is not it. With the infection my body temperature suddenly rises up to 102f, sudden chills, again admitted in the hospital every alternate day my sutures were cut open about a coin size to drain the puzzle it went on for three weeks, bk home with only bones n. No flesh nobody will trust me, I did it, fought it, I'm living with it, I had support from my husband as u say its called help but I took it positive, generally men do not express what they feel, but they are affectionate, post my depression I went to that extent that all this will settle if I don't exist.... But I was silly n realised I love him n. He does too, so decided to talk... It worked wonders.. Also I started writing blogs, baby chakra my buddy who made me what I'm today.... all u need to do is talk, express, take Time for urself do something u would like to , smile, stay cheerful happiness us what we create for us it not in others. Sit for lunch or dinner share views it will help.