People starts judging the day you born...
Yes... It is true that we are judged by the people since the day we born. Even by the parents. Our kid will become doctor, our kid will become astronaut, our kid will become engineer, etc etc etc. Come on please atleast leave the kids free for their childhood. Let them decide what they want to become. Why to force your dreams on them. First see the interest of the kid, then help him to persue his career.  The day mother gave birth to a child started judging by people. How she will manage to raise the kid. She did not do it before. Isn't it funny to listen. Which mother knows to raise the kid since birth. She naturally started knowing to raise the kid she took her kid in her arms. She is the best person to raise her kid. Every mother knows why her child is crying, it is not evertime the others have to shout, feed the child, he is hungry, there could be some other reason also. You can not judge her that she is not caring for the meals of the kid. She absolutely knows about her kid that at what time and at what time interval her kid would be hungry. The dads of the kids are also judged. If the dad of a kid works late hours, he is judged that he lost interest in his wife, he is careless to know how his wife is raising his child. Excuse me!!! She gave birth to his child. Who are you to complain him about his wife regarding their own kid. She is the mother of that kid. Her husband working till late because he feels more responsible now after having the child. He is working hard for better upbringing of his child. Not because he lost his interest in his wife. He found more attached to his wife after the kid came to their life. He doesn't care what happens in a day because he trusts his wife. Because he knows that whatever his wife will do, will be the betterment of their kid. Stop judging him as it could be their decision with mutual understanding by dividing the responsibilities. Lot of other things are there in ones life when they are judged.
The one is judged when got admission in reputed University that must because of donation. Please check the merit list before your judgement.The one is judged when got the job with good hike that must because of "Sifarish". Please check the merit list again and the list of her interviews she gone through and got rejected for 5 months and when finally got the job, she does not have any need to pass the interview of your baseless judgement.The girl is judged, that she is heartless because she did not cry on her biddai at wedding.The new wedded girl is judged, that she doesn't trust or respect the elders because she wanted to keep light jewellery with her so that she can wear it whenever she wants.The working women is judged that she must not run her home efficiently. Please put a CCTV at her home to see the way she manages her home. How efficiently she prepare breakfast for all, pack the tiffins for her husband and for herself, prepare lunch for her in laws, dusting, dish washes etc before leaving for office. After coming home, prepare dinner for all and the preparation for next morning. Whole Grossary etc she managed so well. Her home is too neat and clean even if she has to do it in night. STILL, she is not involved in family conversation. The door is closed on her face, to realise her that she is not family.Some people judge women at her staying at home parent that why she is wasting her qualification. Some judge her for doing job with a kid. Well... this is her own choice depends on the priority of the moment. She doesn't want to leave her kid on maids. Also, she doesn't want to waste her qualification. Plus, she want to become a helping hand for her husband financially. Ofcourse, because they do not want to think twice to spend on their kid. So, may be in future, she will do job again when her child will able to manage himself. Others do not have to worry about her kid or her home that how she will manage.Walk a while in my shoes. If you would, i will accept all your judgements.
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Pooja Garg.