Hi anon, I can understand how difficult it had been for you to even pen down what you feel, but believe me this is something which most of us feel or think at some point of time. but there is nothing wrong in thinking this way as mothers are also humans and they too have their individual life. The whole trick is about balancing. the way we know how to balance work and personal life similarly we have to find a balance in our life as an individual and as different roles we play. we can't give our 100% to anything if we lose focus of what we are actually. Just believe in yourself. first talk to someone whom you trust, and ask for help, someone who can come and stay with you and take care of your daughter or you can look for day care facilities nearby. set a target which you feel can give you the satisfaction of regaining your own identity and start working towards it. it's just a matter of couple of months and you can do it! Think positive ❤

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dont forget that ur the world for ur daughter... whatever u do..do it with her..let her accompany u in every situation... set an example for her that whatever she wants she will get it with hardwork n not with frustration.... dont think like this again... if its just a frustration it will pass n if u trully want something then u will have to achieve it...leaving something behind is not an option dear... lots of love n happiness to u...tc&#128536;

no body is going to judge u dear... we all have been and some of us are including me in ur place right now... i know how it feels to feel worthless.. not having ur own identity...but world doesn't end there... remember one thing if u really want it u will get it... i dont want to praise myself or discourage or hurt ur feelings..i wil just share one thing with u... i have gone through a clinical depression for 10 years since my parents died in a road accident... my life literally turned upside down..i ddnt know public transport wen my parents were alive n wen they left me i had to go to my relatives place n had to go to school by walking 10 km a dat bcz it was a remote village with no transport available.. at the age of 10. my parents wanted me to be a class one officer n i ended up marrying at the age of 21 had a kid at 25...being 'just a housewife' ... it was an identity crisis for me... trust me i have gone through a lot...from mental issues to sexual harassment... i have seen it all... i am not counting my sorrows to you...n i even dont want to make u feel that ur pain is lesser...just want to tell u that i hear u!! understand u completely!! n trust me if i can stand todat passing evry situation behind u can do it to... we r with u... u count urself lucky bcz u have a beautiful daughter..

anon, by creating ur own identity do u mean getting back to work?