Plight of a pregnant woman when bombarded with assumptions about gender of the baby.....just chill and enjoy ...i always wondered whats all the fuss about...the moment i got pregnant people started commenting whether i should have a boy or a girl...all pros and cons...all good or bad things about each gender...that i will have a boy if i eat some medicine which obviously myself being a doctor..i didnt fall into any such traps...i know sex is predecided at time of conception and my husband sperm will decide that...hehe..that if my tummy hair in middle in one particular direction that will decide...or when i walk which foot i keep first will decide ...or what i crave for meetha or namkeen will decide or chinese calender will decide or shape of my belly decide...or ultrasound will decide that actually can but i promise i still dnt know that...hehe..or some old experienced woman with many children will decide by looking at my face glow..or pimples..or whatever...or some family members dreams will decide....or i dnt know what not...initially i was getting affected by all these talks...and in this tug of war between family members for a boy or a girl and admist all d bets even i had formed opinion for some time period...that it will be a boy or a girl...but u know what i am over all of this now..now i enjoy these talks...sabke maze leti hun....ghar me two gps hai half fr boy; rest fr girl jinke bech mein bet lagwa di hai...jo harage baby birth pe party dega whatever will be d gender..i ll be d winner...my baby will be the winner...i just long for a healthy baby..whatever gender tantrums people throw just dont get affected by these things..its ur life ..ur baby...ur terms...save all ur love and thoughts to grow a healthy and happy baby....😘😘😘