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We came in contact through a common friend and his younger brother over phone by chance. I was preapring for medical entrance exam at a PG hostel and he was in 3rd year of his Btech agriculture.
my love story has more drama than any bollywood movie. I liked his voice. He isn't a singer or anything but somehow his voice was soothing to my ears. I called him up again and again to talk randomly as I was attracted to his sound. We talked for 3 months untill one day I proposed him over phone. And I was lucky he said yes. We met a month later. In december. December 7th 2008 was our first meet first date. We went to a small restaurant for lunch and then a long drive. We had already fallen in love deeply with each other much before we met. Over the years our love grew by leaps and bounds to a level where I just could see hear or feel anything beyond him. I was crazily madly in love. Finally in my second year of medical school, I told my mom that I wanted to marry him. And all hell broke loose. My parents were no more my parents. They became some kind of jatts or like the people who did honour killings. They were angry with me. They hit me and locked me up, even left me crying for days. They tried to forcefully get me married to their choice of candidate. I was loosing my sanity and went into depression. I tried to commit suicide also. Finally at one point I gave up and broke up with him. I agreed for marriage.i was put in embarassing circumstances of superstitions related to peer babas and matas and kaala jaadu tona totka everything possible in the world. I was started on anti psychotic drugs also. I wanted to get married as soon as possible at that time. But things didn't happen that way. After a few days I found a way to deny again as my mind and heart was gone with him. So I denied by saying that the chosen fellow doesn't respect me as he too started commenting on my weight and figure. But my mom didn't believe me. So I gave up on mom. I felt that even if I agree with my parent's decision I am going to suffer so y not suffer by following my heart. So i tried to contact Abhijit again. I was so distraught at that time that he felt pity on me and started talking to me.
We knew that being together was not possible but we were addicted to each other and couldn't stay away. So we continued to meet and talk secretly. My mom was busy searching for suitable doctor proposals for me even after I requested her to give me 1 year's time to get through the final year and internship.
My best friend wanted to visit my home. She met my mom at hostel but when she met her at home, she felt it was different. She could sense how obsessive and adamant mom was about my marriage.
Then I decided to go for court marriage. We took police protection and informed all police stations of his area and my area about our decision of getting married. So that my parents can not approach the police. After court marriage we started staying together at a rented place. A month later I joined my first Job at AMRI hospital. 6 months later i approached my parents for marriage.
With a lot of difficulties and without anybody to help we arranged our marriage within a week. My parents never accepted us. During these 3 years of togetherness we fell in ove each and evwry day with each other. He would do anything for my comfort and happiness. The day he allowed me to go on my all girl's trip to shillong even before going with him on a holiday, I fell in love with him all over again.
At the time of my delivery my mother stayed with us for 6 to 7 days. She left the day Govind came home. Then 3 months After Govind was born, my mother came to take me. In these 3 months both of us were exhausted to the point of some negativity in our relationship.
I thought some dusyance would help him clear his mind. And yes it did. He realised what was wrong. But my mom didn't allow me to go back to my life alone with Govind. So I did a lot of changes to be with Govind while doing a job. My post pregnancy life is all with babychakra and that brongs me to the end of this mommy take over. #AAM
#mommytakeover
We came in contact through a common friend and his younger brother over phone by chance. I was preapring for medical entrance exam at a PG hostel and he was in 3rd year of his Btech agriculture.
my love story has more drama than any bollywood movie. I liked his voice. He isn't a singer or anything but somehow his voice was soothing to my ears. I called him up again and again to talk randomly as I was attracted to his sound. We talked for 3 months untill one day I proposed him over phone. And I was lucky he said yes. We met a month later. In december. December 7th 2008 was our first meet first date. We went to a small restaurant for lunch and then a long drive. We had already fallen in love deeply with each other much before we met. Over the years our love grew by leaps and bounds to a level where I just could see hear or feel anything beyond him. I was crazily madly in love. Finally in my second year of medical school, I told my mom that I wanted to marry him. And all hell broke loose. My parents were no more my parents. They became some kind of jatts or like the people who did honour killings. They were angry with me. They hit me and locked me up, even left me crying for days. They tried to forcefully get me married to their choice of candidate. I was loosing my sanity and went into depression. I tried to commit suicide also. Finally at one point I gave up and broke up with him. I agreed for marriage.i was put in embarassing circumstances of superstitions related to peer babas and matas and kaala jaadu tona totka everything possible in the world. I was started on anti psychotic drugs also. I wanted to get married as soon as possible at that time. But things didn't happen that way. After a few days I found a way to deny again as my mind and heart was gone with him. So I denied by saying that the chosen fellow doesn't respect me as he too started commenting on my weight and figure. But my mom didn't believe me. So I gave up on mom. I felt that even if I agree with my parent's decision I am going to suffer so y not suffer by following my heart. So i tried to contact Abhijit again. I was so distraught at that time that he felt pity on me and started talking to me.
We knew that being together was not possible but we were addicted to each other and couldn't stay away. So we continued to meet and talk secretly. My mom was busy searching for suitable doctor proposals for me even after I requested her to give me 1 year's time to get through the final year and internship.
My best friend wanted to visit my home. She met my mom at hostel but when she met her at home, she felt it was different. She could sense how obsessive and adamant mom was about my marriage.
Then I decided to go for court marriage. We took police protection and informed all police stations of his area and my area about our decision of getting married. So that my parents can not approach the police. After court marriage we started staying together at a rented place. A month later I joined my first Job at AMRI hospital. 6 months later i approached my parents for marriage.
With a lot of difficulties and without anybody to help we arranged our marriage within a week. My parents never accepted us. During these 3 years of togetherness we fell in ove each and evwry day with each other. He would do anything for my comfort and happiness. The day he allowed me to go on my all girl's trip to shillong even before going with him on a holiday, I fell in love with him all over again.
At the time of my delivery my mother stayed with us for 6 to 7 days. She left the day Govind came home. Then 3 months After Govind was born, my mother came to take me. In these 3 months both of us were exhausted to the point of some negativity in our relationship.
I thought some dusyance would help him clear his mind. And yes it did. He realised what was wrong. But my mom didn't allow me to go back to my life alone with Govind. So I did a lot of changes to be with Govind while doing a job. My post pregnancy life is all with babychakra and that brongs me to the end of this mommy take over. #AAM
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Beautiful love story dear n donot worry ,ur parents will accept ur husband n will respect him.Lots of blessings to u ..
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<span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @6170259aade2a9001326c96a </b></span> don't worry and don't get into depression. Definitely one fine day your parents will understand everything and they will accept your husband. I think more than a profession taking care of you with so much love is most important. That should be understood by your parents. Hope for the best to happen.
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<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @5fedec01cccb6d0014097596 </b></font> yes i m waiting for that day. I don't want them to b alone too after retirement. So this is a somewhat okay settlement now. I hope for more better days ahead with my family that I am blessed with and my family that I am growing with now.
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27 Sep 2019