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My parents use to live in different city. So i lived in Bangalore in pg for few years to do some course and to go for work.
My hubby with his family also live in Bangalore that too near my area where I lived. After my marriage was fixed we had 6 months of courtship. He use to visit me at weekends. We together did shopping for our marriage. That was really memorable time of my life when I get to know him better.
I was leaving in a small comfortable world. After marriage i entered to a very different atmosphere.

I was very shy in nature and won't open up easily. In-laws thought I was having attitude. To be frank I have no idea how to deal with this. My hubby was third child of my in-laws and elder son. His two elder sisters are married they live in different cities. Still two sisters and two brothers are are there at home when I married. Then I started talk to them on my own and try to know about there likes and dislikes. Gradually we become friends. I put my heart and soul in there marriage. Now they are happily stay in US. When the elder sisters came with their families I took really good care of them and cooked nice dishes for them.
Being elder daughter in-law I had my own set of responsibilities. I have to take care of each and everybody's concern. How much I give my best to them, they will find something fault in that. I suffered a lot. In beginning I use to get depressed and cry a lot. But time is the factor that teaches us how we have to deal with situations like this. Now I live with my hubby, daughter, in-laws, 2bils and cosister and there kids.
Life is a rollercoaster , I have seen ups and downs in all aspects. Now I learnt that do your work with pure heart. Leave the consequences to god. Now I don't argue for anything. Just ignore that what others say if it's gonna hurt me. If anybody don't like me it's there problem not mine. Rest god will take care. When ever I felt like enough I can't handle more, then god helped in so many situations. I am strong believer of God and good Karma's.
I must say if my hubby has not supported me in each and every step I would have broken in to pieces. He loves me a lot. He is simple person in nature. Away from social media. But having vast knowledge about everything. He is my constant support and my reason to live. He is a family person and loves his family to core.


Dears what is your mantra for life as life bring unexpected challenges?? #mommytakeover