Read Something today, Couldn't stop myself from sharing a Jist of what it was, because it was just what was going on in my mind since a while now..
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We are so terrified about even the thought of being alone that at times we end up choosing wrong people because we'd rather have someone than No one at all.. We are ao fantasized by the thought of Love that the whole idea becomes priority over the person itself and at times we end up suffocating our relation under those burden of expectations.. .
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The Second biggest mistake we do is that we forget to love ourself more than anybody else and when someone loves us a tiny bit too, we feel that its too much but turns out its not even half of what we deserve.. It is important that we love ourself 100% and then accept a person who matches to that or make peace with the idea of being alone rather than being with the ones who arent right and doesnot fit properly into our lives..
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Its important that we raise our kids keeping these 2 very important things in mind.. First, they should love themselves enough that they should not feel the need of someone else to love them and Second, they should know that Love and affection is not like movies and our fantasies but much more than that and its not all green.. THERE IS ABDOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING ALONE AND LOVING YOURSELF THE MOST.. Dont lose on the person who genuinely loves you, while chasing the wrong ones..
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P.S- This is not just about love or life partner, its about all the relations that we have ❤️❤️
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