SO RECENTLY MY DAUGHTER STARTED GOING TO SCHOOL. SHE WILL TURN 2 NEXT MONTH AND I WANTED HER TO BE INDEPENDENT SO I ENROLLED HER IN PLAYSCHOOL.
I WAS A BIT WORRIED THAT WHAT IF SHE CRIES A LOT, WHAT IF SHE DOESN'T LIKE IT THERE, WHAT IF SHE WILL NOT EAT PROPERLY.I WAS WORRIED TO HELL. I HAD SLEEPLESS NIGHTS THINKING ABOUT MY DECISION.
HER FIRST DAY AT SCHOOL I WAS ALLOWED TO BE IN CLASS WITH HER, SHE WAS COMFORTABLE. NEXT DAY WAS SEPARATION PERIOD, I WAS ;TO SIT DOWN WHILE TEACHER TAKES HER UP. SHE WENT TO HER TEACHER IMMEDIATELY. AND SHE PLAYED IN THE CLASS. SHE WAS VERY HAPPY WHEN SHE CAME TO ME. AND EVER SINCE THEN SHE LOVES GOING TO SCHOOL. WE DIDN’T HAVE ANY CRIES OR TANTRUMS. SHE WAKES UP IN THE MORNING GETS READY AND LOVES TO GO TO SCHOOL.
THIS MADE ME THINK WHY DO WE WORRY SO MUCH ABOUT THEM, WHEN ALL THEY WANT IS LITTLE FUN. WE AS MOTHERS WE KEEP BEING WORRIED ABOUT WHAT THEY EAT, WHEN THEY SLEEP, HOW MUCH TV TIME, HOW MUCH PLAYTIME. IT’S LIKE WE TRY TO DECIDE FOR THEM HOW THEY SHOULD LIVE THEIR LIFE. BUT AS A PARENT OUR JOB IS JUST TO MAKE THEIR CHILDHOOD MEMORABLE AND FUN.
LET THEM EAT WHEN THEY WANT TO, HOW MUCH THEY WANT ;TO.

LET THEM SLEEP WHEN THEY ARE TIRED. MAKE THEM UNDERSTAND THE IMPORTANCE OF SPENDING TIME PLAYING OUTSIDE RATHER THAN SITTING IN FRONT OF TV. THEY MAY BE SMALL BUT THEY UNDERSTAND EVERYTHING.GET TO THEIR LEVEL PLAY WITH THEM, TALK TO THEM, CUDDLE THEM,UNDERSTAND THEM.

DON’T DECIDE THINGS FOR ;THEIR LIFE JUST BE A GUIDANCE FOR THEM TO CHOOSE WHAT THEY WANT IN THEIR ;LIFE.
I READ SOMEWHERE THAT PARENTING IS LIKE BUILDING A BOAT.

KIDS ARE GOING TO SAIL AWAY FROM US, ITS INEVITABLE, OUR JOB IS TO BUILD

THEM A BOAT, TO SURVIVE THE STORMS OUTSIDE IN THE WORLD AND HELP THEM GET BACK TO US WHENEVER THEY DECIDE AND FEEL SAFE.
BE THE SUPPORT AND A FRIEND FOR YOUR CHILD.<3