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The DAY my Son was Welcomed into

The World. :
Well just like all moms or Most moms I too was definitely happy and over the moon that my baby,my boy has finally arrived on this planet.
Even while I am writing this I am wondering about the feelings which I had when he popped out of me. And I cannot stop smiling. Read to know why!! Personally I am a very dramatic person and few emotions which I had encountered after popping him out were :


🧚‍♀️ Yay he cried after coming out Just like they shown in the movies.


🧚‍♀️ Oh man thank God this pregnancy is over and now I can sleep on both the sides and not the dreaded left side.

🧚‍♀️ As soon he came out the pain was gone and I couldn't be more thankful. #iswear (I was in labour for good 9 hours) and all this was going in my mind while I was being stitched and cleaned!!

Now these are the funny/stupid things but post the delivery after few hours when the nurse asked me if I want to see the baby I said NO. I just didn't what to hold him and wasn't ready to face the new life. Strange as hell the love at first sight didn't happen for me and I avoided meeting my boy until the evening (he was born in the morning around 9am).


Even after holding him in the evening I couldn't gather the bouts of affection that mothers all around the world vouch for.This really got me thinking that maybe I am not the person fit to be a mom and Samarth is going to hate me .

Luckily due to a super expressive family that I belong to didn't let me suppress myself with these thoughts which could have been a sign of post natal depression and slowly and steadily I did overcome this overwhelming feeling of being a Mom.

Thankfully now the love is so strong that koi chuu ke dikha de mere bete ko ,they will know kisse panga liya hai 😂😂
Do share how you felt when you saw your baby for the first time!!
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V PB

I had the exact same experience like you Priyanka :D I could barely remember her face after my c sec<br> My labour pain had started late in evening, I wasn't very sure if it was real or false pain my due date was same day. But no signs of heavyness around lower pelvic which meant baby was still up. I was under observation since a week and baby had not moved an inch below, she was just enjoying her princess sleep there. Even after entire night of labour pain there was no dilation at LL. I had downloaded contractions timer as well. I was not even able to explain what kind of pain I was going thru&#129318; so my mom was also not sure, I somehow gathered myself n stretched u til 6am in the morning when it was unbearable we just left for hospital. I really don't remember what was going on my mind everything was happening very quickly. Docs waited till 10am, they tried I ducing pain but my contractions were becoming weaker instead they should have strong n quicker. I have been shifted to 3 wards n tine was passing suddenly I was told to change I to another gown n was taken into OT. Doc came we my hubby n one form in hand she explained smthing to him n they both nodded, I signed the form when I realise there is no point in waiting as there was no dilation, baby was heavy and her breathing was slowly going down. It's really a long story ahead as well I need another post for that. What I relate is I heard the cry ..I was dead sleepy...i was also shown the baby I saw n said wow baby girl n went back to sleep. I was almost unconscious n sleepy till late evening I could barely remember her face, I had no energy to turn n see her face in craddle...n same night she was shifted to NICU for next 3 days I couldn't see her hence there was really no attachment ..or motherly feeling developed u till I saw her in NICU on 4th day she cried alound after my touch n I felt such a sudden rush of emotions I ws in Continuos tears for next 2hrs

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Rebecca Prakash

He is so cute.

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Mahima Atishaya

I was in labour for a good 6 hours, exhausted and couldn't push anymore, he was pulled out with forceps... couldn't hold him also coz he was rushed to the NICU coz he wasn't breathing properly...but one thing I definitely remember was as soon as he was out he was put on my tummy and I was asked not to touch but I did... He was slimy and pure and trying to cry out and tears started rolling down my cheeks ... &#129392;&#129392;&#129392;....loved the post your a lovely mom...

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Anon_2290432954

I was in labour pain for 3 hrs..n i was fully exhausted because of pushing baby out.. and when baby was out., i was like ohh God i need a no disturbance sleep now .. the doc brought baby near me .. i just saw him for a second and asked boy hai k girl? Then they did the stitching process where doc made a mistake and because of that the area swelled n i cried more for next 3 hrs . Again the treatment was done so in this way i met my baby (born at 4 pm) after 10 pm

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Sania Bhushan

Nice post dear,when i saw my baby for the first time,my eyes were filled with tears of happiness

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