I wanted only kid.. Now i have 2. My husband being a single child was & is eager to have more kids :p. I have a twin sister n younger brothet. we have a gr8 bonding. One day my hub told u have a special spark in ur eyes at the mention of ur brother n sister n i want to see that special spark in my child s eyes also. That moment i decided to have a second child. N i have 2 sons now. So its all about being there wen we need each other. Hope my kids grow up n remain Loving. 'The best thing to hold on in life is to each other'.

thanks for the tag <span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @616d0591b34e550013eb9a72 </b></span>. wish for two . boy nd girl . it's super fun for shopping cute pink clothes for girl nd smart blue ones for boy&nbsp;&nbsp; &#129315;&#129315;

<font color ="#3b5998"><b> @616d0591b34e550013eb9a72 </b></font> what a great debate!&nbsp; let's face it we live in a society&nbsp; where even some people my age think,&nbsp; "agar baache ko Behan bhai nahi diya to kya diya? " let alone elders.&nbsp; I don't think it is a decision someone can make for you. You as a couple need to decide what works for you?&nbsp; single child or double.&nbsp; If you feel you can cope with two children (especially these days when EVERYTHING is so expensive , that both parents working becomes essential to an extent to live comfortably)&nbsp; then go for it.&nbsp; If not then I feel society is no one to judge people for not having a second child ( which we are really fond of occasionally) .&nbsp; A child isn't just for the company of the second child. it is a new life with new set of responsibilities and new set of commitments. if that works you, then why not?&nbsp; Me, so far I am content the one.

I and my husband were also thinking about having another child or no .. so many things going on in our mind... but now my 5 year sometimes asks me mom why you didn't get another sister for me ? so I feel that we should be having another vhild.. we are also 3 and my husband had a elder brother who passed away when he was 9 months old...

Thanks for the tag <span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @63729b593f31520016a69b80 </b></span><span style="color:#3B5998;"><b><u></u></b></span>&#9786;&#65039; This topic scary me. My parent's and his parent's have two kids. One set of people say, 'your baby will be alone after you get aged'. Other's are telling, concentrate on one kid and let the baby enjoys the mother love all alone. <br> I have seen my mom running to office and home continuously till my sister got married. Frankly speaking, i Learnt sharing and caring from my sister. But thinking about having the sleeplessness nights, pain, hair loss&#128520;&#128533; it scary me a lot. Atleast i want to live a normal life(i mean sleep for 6 hrs continuously&#128513;) for another two or three years . &#9786;&#65039;&#9786;&#65039;