There was an innocent girl brought up; in a small town who never loved anything materialistic and her whole world evolved round her family and friends..She was called outdated as she didn't had cable connection and access to internet..

But she was happy as for her it meant wasting time which she could happily spend with her family and friends..

Then came a turning point in her life the moment she completed her graduation..Her parents chose a guy to get her married and she without giving a second thought said yes..But in her mind she was totally clueless what marriage meant..For her it was just two people staying together..No one was there who could share with her about sex etc other than her husband...

After a year of marriage she conceived and it turned out to be ectopic pregnancy and she got operated all alone and it was a life threatening operation as her right side fallopian tube was removed...but she bravely came out of it without knowing that she'll have to face lot of challenges in conceiving and starting her motherhood journey..

Few years passed by and her relatives started saying her to adopt from some relatives but she and her hubby were adamant that if ever they'll adopt it will be from an orphanage..Then she consulted the; famous gyneac in Bombay hospital and the moment all her tests were done..She got the news that her hubby got transferred to Pune...

She cried her heart out as she always dreamt of staying in Mumbai but she moved to Pune happily...When she got settled in Pune her search for gyneac started and she conceived with iui little knowing that it will be a terminated pregnancy for reasons unknown..she was blamed for this too as she made; mistake of sharing this with her SIL...

She lost hope without any fault of her...

Then came a gyneac as a magician in her life...when she was preparing herself for IVF and adoption....this gyneac was like you'll conceive naturally....she and her husband got little hope and started consulting him...and yes she conceived naturally and is mother of twins...

She faced so many challenges but happily overcame thinking all she is doing for her family and herself and in every step she took she had her pillar of strength her hubby and her parents..

Pregnancy with twins was not easy..she got gd and was on insulin for while 9months thrice a day and hypothyroid...Still she managed to deliver full term twins with the help of her gyneac..

In her family delivery happens in inlaws place but she always wished that her mother her mentor comes and her hubby lost his grandmother just 15 days before delivery and her mother came for delivery..

IShe was even judged when she gave birth to two boys as she was not blessed enough hence no gurl..

She was judged for not able to loose post pregnancy weight and was called Dunlop bed just after 15 days of delivery..

Few of her so called close; relatives don't even talk to her from the time she conceived; because they were sure that she can't be a mother to her own kids..

Journey with twins all alone was never easy and is still not easy but same is not difficult too...

I owe so much to my virtual and extended family who message me for my whereabouts...

Our journey yes me and my hubby Uttam Bathwal parenting journey would have not been so smooth all alone if we were not part of this wonderful group..

What we like about this group is that no one is judged here😍😍

Credit goes to our admin Amruta😘😘
Whatever I am today is just because of my twins, hubby, siblings, parents and virtual friends

I just believe if there is will there is way and patience is key to success.....

Keep smiling as it is contagious....
Have lot more to share and will share today whole day...

I generally don't speak much about myself but thank you so much BabyChakra for giving me this opportunity to express myself...

How and what was your childhood experience???Do share mommies