Things you learn after a heartbreak: A failed relationship.

Relationship is a huge terminology compromising many emotional , physical, economical feelings and values to it . You tend to mend yourself for a person you love; be a better person each day . But God forbid it doesn’t work well and you end up in a failed or a broken relationship. Here, I’d like to bifurcate the things you’ll learn , cultivate and enhance after a heartbreak.

#1. Self love :

Somewhere deep down you already knew that he or she wasn’t the one but the urge to hold on and be with them made you stay. And in this process you tend to loose your own happiness; in the persue to please them. Now you start focusing on your self and activities you love and where missing in your life.

#2. Confidence :

A failed relationship always makes you stronger and boosts your confidence level. Now you can decide what you want, what you wear, what you eat, how you eat and many more small and big decisions. It makes you self aware of your choices. You are not bound to anyone anymore for their consent.

#3. Letting go :

The cliche ‘It wasn’t you it was me’
Comes to an end. Whoever it was it is done and gone, gone for good, let go. Now you no more crib over things. You cultivate the attitude of letting go. You don’t fight for things even if you are right in the position. You know you are right and that’s enough for you, Let Go. Reminiscing is not in the protocol.

#4. Staying Positive :

Your only concern after a heartbreak is not to break it ever, further in your life. And to make sure this happens you start focusing on staying positive, been with all the positive vibes people, not analysing the negative outcome. Staying calm and positive is what you learn after a heartbreak.

#5. Your Worth :

You were worthy of everything in this world and you still are. It’s their lose. Start afresh, look around and to find someone more compatible and worthy than the past. You start realising your worth and start being more social and outspoken than before.

Babe, don’t be a victim of heartbreak be a heart breaker. The world is yours to be explored and so are the inhibitors.
People who learn are always the best and learning from a failure gives you a practical aspect. Heartbreak is not a disease and definitely not contagious. Smile along. Stay blessed.

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