Today marks our first social wedding anniversary ..

Though we have celebrated it in May when we registered.
I wasn't expecting anything From Rohit . As we had a clash yesterday only ... but when I woke up I found this set on my bed table .. though I woke up really early but all the memories , the flashback was running in my mind and I didn't got out of my bed. I comfortably; snuggled in my blanket ... and was echoing my thoughts

❤ why do I blame my husband always ?? Whatever goes wrong with my relation with in-laws I always put it on him ...

For mot taking my stand blah blah
❤isn't he the one suffering more then me ?;; I mean come on which child would love seeing someone disliking his parents ..;; for him it's a do or die.;; If he agrees to his wife he has killed the son inside of he doesn't the wife constantly taunts him
❤what would be the ideal husband then ??;;;

To be quite honest we all expect them to take our side , take our stand forgetting how hard it would be for them to accept that a person whom they considered their role model ( parents ) aren't being fair to their wife ..;;
Isn't accepting this a very difficult for all of us ..;; imagine us accepting the same for our; parents ...
Our world would shatter ... i can never imagine my mom being brutal , lying or bitching about my husband ..( trust me on that )

👰; he was always a nice person a nice husband ... but I expected him to kick off his parents or give answers to them just because now he is married to me .. how unfair is that ?
👰if his mom is treating me like shit is it his fault ?;; Ofcourse not .. the lady had all the rights on her son and suddenly I happened.. her reign couldn't last ..
😉😉😉so mil started behaving like Karni sena losing her sanity because of losing her reign.. and just to get publicity or to get attention she would go to any extent ..

❤Couples who fight often are most likely stronger than couples who do not, but it’s not the fighting that makes them stronger, it’s what takes place after the fighting; the making up. It’s coming to the realization that your relationship is more important than your differences. It involves acts of forgiveness and acceptance of one’s mistakes. You fight, and you learn something new about the person. That’s how it works, real relationships aren’t perfect, and perfect;relationships aren’t real.❤

This is the quote which has kept me sane all the time.. I always believed in it.
👰my marriage was on stake I was pushed to an extent where divorce was the only option . I was about to give up but I realised; on time .. just because my mil and sil dislike me and insulting my husband shouldn't be one to suffer .

👰life wouldn't be beautiful if I don't look at it beautifully .

👰I geared up again took the charge of my battle..;;;
❤👰❤👰this is what I have concluded

Points to be noted :

❤do not blame your husband for everything

❤take charge it's your life afterall .. You should be the one who should be handling all these things diplomatically

❤do not tell every small incidents; to husband .. aren't we grow up ? Then why do we behave like a 3 year old ... 🙌mummy usne meri pencil me li 🙌
Same we do 👰👰husband husband tumhari mummy be meri jagah le li , so mujhe mere rights dilwao 👰
❤don't let the flame go off ... You are equally responsible to keep the spark alive

❤give the husband his breathing space .. he will understand your problems; but only when we tell it in a way he wants to listen

❤ don't expect your husband to behave like a lady .. don't you want your husband to be man enough?? Then how we do expect to behave like a lady and give reactions to things which shouldn't be matter of his concern .
❤❤no matter how much we have progressed there are certain things in our culture which hasn't progressed yet

❤❤girl power , women power is important but bahu being equal to beti isn't in the picture yet
❤❤❤And how do we want to get equality when we expect our husband's to take side of us all the time.
❤❤time to empower ourself

P.s the views are expressed being emotional understanding my husband's point of view ..

Will soon take my naari; morcha; and would talk about how unfair my in laws are and I am no less

But today let me be those emotional romantic one ..; taking up my husband's side ..

I am now in my kitchen preparing a sumptuous meal ❤❤❤ #husbandpercharcha
#momathon2