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what to do when your bhabhi. doesn't allow your kid to. play with hers just because your kid is young and might. hit hers who is two. years elder... i meet them. twice in a year and even. then thwy behave like this, i dont have real brother or sister and this is cousins wife (cousin brother who is equally possessive and does the same), they protect or rather over protect their child,.... everytime they behave so noce over. face but. extremely hard to understand.... i am. so sad even. my. mom is sad. and. not able to. sleep because for us they were family amd. who does. anything like this woth real sister in law or sister or her. baby.... just by saying i care for u or celebrating rakhi does. not mean you are done with all responsibility, he never calls or asks if i. am. doing ok but he takes care of my father (i stay far and. not able to do everything that i should for parents)
what to do when your bhabhi. doesn't allow your kid to. play with hers just because your kid is young and might. hit hers who is two. years elder... i meet them. twice in a year and even. then thwy behave like this, i dont have real brother or sister and this is cousins wife (cousin brother who is equally possessive and does the same), they protect or rather over protect their child,.... everytime they behave so noce over. face but. extremely hard to understand.... i am. so sad even. my. mom is sad. and. not able to. sleep because for us they were family amd. who does. anything like this woth real sister in law or sister or her. baby.... just by saying i care for u or celebrating rakhi does. not mean you are done with all responsibility, he never calls or asks if i. am. doing ok but he takes care of my father (i stay far and. not able to do everything that i should for parents)
Look some ppl are like that they will differentiate like this so plz don't take it to heart in family you have every type of ppl and you have to still live with them. So just ignore her and enjoy your stay at parents house why to expect so much from her if she don't care this way you will just hurt yourself and your parents. Your parents have no other option but to live with her so let it be and ignore. by lementing on her behavior you are just gaining nagitivity just be happy and ignore and this is best you can do.
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Dear..you cannot change the mentality of such people..please ignore their behaviour..you go to their house to meet your parents and that is the most important thing..he is taking care of your father which is a good thing..you can also make your bhabhi understand that you have taught your kid to behave nicely with other kids and he won't hit them and that she should let them play under adult supervision..this way she will also be relaxed about her child..as far as calling goes, you have your parents to do that..so don't expect your cousin to call you..the lesser the expectations the happier you will be
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05 Apr 2018