What do you do whole day?
This question is so now normal to me, because I get to answer the same atleast once a day to some random people.
Yes! You know why I an judged. Because I have 2 house helps one for cleaning and other is a cook. People easily go judgemental when they see I have a cook. .
Common comments I get-
🔥You are just 2 people at home, still you need a cook! Oh 🙄
🔥Oh, how can you have food made by someone else? 🤔
🔥 Oh, you don't even make food for your baby, she also has food cooked by the help? Oh man, poor kid 😞
🔥 You must have to compromise on taste, if someone else is cooking it. 😏
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I mean why on earth having a help for cooking is not considered okay in our society? You can have a help for cleaning but not cooking?
And how does it make me having no work all the day?
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How.. Read my part before judging. .
🍀Dude I have a hyper active toddler all day eating my head and throwing toys all over the house.🍀I have a fussy eater who takes around 30 minutes to complete a single meal. (That sums up around 2 hours for a day). 🍀She is a single child so she wants a companion for play. 🍀My husband works 14 hours a day, and that counts as a full day alone at home.
🍀Yes she sleeps 1 hour a day, and I take out that time for myself. (Not guilty at all)
🍀I have to stay active on my social media too, cos I do it for my happiness. (Judge me on that)
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Still people judge me on what do I do whole day? Are you judging me too? Or are you getting judged like me too?
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Share in comments and let's break this stereotype together moms.
This question is so now normal to me, because I get to answer the same atleast once a day to some random people.
Yes! You know why I an judged. Because I have 2 house helps one for cleaning and other is a cook. People easily go judgemental when they see I have a cook. .
Common comments I get-
🔥You are just 2 people at home, still you need a cook! Oh 🙄
🔥Oh, how can you have food made by someone else? 🤔
🔥 Oh, you don't even make food for your baby, she also has food cooked by the help? Oh man, poor kid 😞
🔥 You must have to compromise on taste, if someone else is cooking it. 😏
.
I mean why on earth having a help for cooking is not considered okay in our society? You can have a help for cleaning but not cooking?
And how does it make me having no work all the day?
.
How.. Read my part before judging. .
🍀Dude I have a hyper active toddler all day eating my head and throwing toys all over the house.🍀I have a fussy eater who takes around 30 minutes to complete a single meal. (That sums up around 2 hours for a day). 🍀She is a single child so she wants a companion for play. 🍀My husband works 14 hours a day, and that counts as a full day alone at home.
🍀Yes she sleeps 1 hour a day, and I take out that time for myself. (Not guilty at all)
🍀I have to stay active on my social media too, cos I do it for my happiness. (Judge me on that)
.
Still people judge me on what do I do whole day? Are you judging me too? Or are you getting judged like me too?
.
Share in comments and let's break this stereotype together moms.
we really need to break this !! agree with you totally dear
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So relatable! People will and are going to judge a mom no matter what she does. Trust me, if you yourself would prepare food then too people would judge you on it. What else are we supposed to do if we do not get any help and have to manage things all on our own? If the baby is getting well cooked, hygienic and nutritious food daily then be it. Doesn't matter who cooks if the standards are taken care of.
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Isha Pal
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12 Sep 2019