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Where to hide my darling baby!!!!;

As parents, specially as mom's we are super possessive and defensive about our children. A slight braise and we run the house down to make sure our baby is not in pain. We do everything possible to ensure their safety, their comfort, their happiness. But there's always something that worries us, as a mom am I doing enough. As a mother, am I giving enough care, time, food, love and what not. Also there is a constant concern about their safety. At times, we don't trust our own with our children.;

I don't entrust Aarav's care to anyone, simply because I'm scared and worried. No matter who it is, except his father. I follow the Google news, whenever time permits and I'm a voracious reader. Spend a lot of time reading and reading and reading. In the last couple of days, I've read some really heart breaking news of child exploitation, child abuse and child rape. It not only concerns me, but worries me, because it's not just girl children, but even male kids that are being abused. My heart goes out to every suffering, innocent child subjected to the cruelty and brutality of some pervert.;

Now this case that took place in hyd shook me in my bones, a pre schooler was sexually abused by the aayaha at the school . Two women sexually abused a 3 year old and then brutally inserted a stick in the private parts of that kid. Ohh!!! My heart cries even writing this. My son is about to go to a pre school, and I lack confidence in people reading such stuff. No matter how much we take care, it's those prying eyes that should be punished. But justice!!! In a country where people can just run away and claim not guilty, your free. Justice delayed is justice denied.;

Then there are those set of people who claim, it's a woman's dressing that should be taken care off. Excuse me!!! Those kids were just so tiny, in another case it was a 28 day old girl baby... What can we do about it?? How do we bring about the change?? Atleast how do we protect our children?? I have been teaching Aarav, good touch and bad touch and I'm glad it's helping. He doesn't let anyone accompany him to the toilet except me or my husband. But, I also ensured to tell him that a aayaha will help him at school. I taught him that if anyone touches him and hurts him, he should tell the teacher and Mumma... I think it's important that we take that initiative as parents to impart this into our kids. There is so much happening around and our children are the apple of our eye.;

Mom's....I believe each of you must have, some where in your hearts thought about this... please share your thoughts and feelings in the comments below. Apart from teaching good touch and bad touch , what else can we do?? Also a gentle reminder, plz trust your kids, be their confidant, listen to them and watch any changes that come in them. They are innocent, they are our lives. ♥️♥️
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Mahima Atishaya

Yes <span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @616d9103c1b4770013bcfd0d </b></span> ...sometimes our babies being clingy is a blessing in disguise ....thank you &#129392;&#9829;&#65039;&#128525;

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Smitha Prabhav

It has become irrespective of gender, age, place, situation.. It's really scary. <br> When you've faced it yourself and think of it happening to someone else.. It's even more horrifying. There's nothing wrong with us being extra cautious. Many a times when we are out, people take my son around and luckily for me he's clingy( I used to hate that he used to stick like a magnet but after I realised I think it's a blessing in disguise) so he comes back before I begin to concoct stuff in my head.<br>

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Mahima Atishaya

Yes <span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @63713ddee0852e00159ad6fc </b></span> ..very true...our teachings itself are a big protection to our children

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Sania Bhushan

Exactly true,We live in a country where neither a three year old child nor thirty year old lady safe.We as parents of our child always alert regarding the safety of them,but we cannot be with all time n in today's time no one can be trusted.So we teach our kids bad touch n good touch,if someone ask u to go with me just refused it or tell to someone who is nearby u

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Mahima Atishaya

Yes <span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @616da22c791e5a0013a0a18b </b></span> and <span style="color:#3B5998;"><b> @616dae94202a1a00130969ec </b></span> ...it's a very tough task to protect out children...so the only best way is to keep talking to them.... telling them from a very age....the importance of which is increased in the last few years.... When I find something odd I immediately grab Aarav and walk away saying I got to go, have some work....sometimes being rude also scares me...may b they will hold a grudge...&#128580;&#128580;&#128580;...super scary world and society we live in

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