Your Tween’s First Bra , #mygirl #puberty #firstbra .
For many young girls, a first bra is more than just a mere article of clothing: it can simultaneously be a symbol of maturity, a rite of passage into womanhood, a magical object of fantasy. As a parent, it may evoke just as many powerful and conflicting reactions: your brain may recognize this as an important physical and emotional milestone, and yet your heart may dread it as the end of your precious little girl’s childhood and seek to postpone it as long as possible. How do you know when it is time for your daughter’s first bra? Here are some tips to consider.
1. Watch your daughter for body changes.
girls usually begin to develop breast buds, a hard knot under the nipple, around age ten or eleven, although this may occur much earlier, or much later. She might tell you that her chest is sore or tender.

“this is a perfect segue point for you as parents to discuss breast development.”
donot wait for periods to start, sometimes it's the last sign to puberty,
u must watch for

pubic hair

breast buds

changes in growth

gaining height

mood changes .
At this time, parents may choose to have a young girl wear a camisole or light sports bra. However, when growing breast tissue “begins to push her nipples out and they become visible through a light shirt,” “it is time to start wearing a bra.”
2. Buy a good first bra that provides proper support.
“Breasts have no age,”

mothers who resist buying their young daughters a proper bra either because they don’t want to spend a lot of money on a young girl, or they are simply in denial that their daughter’s breasts are truly the size they are. “If your 12-year old daughter has size 32C breasts, then she needs a well-constructed, supportive size 32C bra. Invest in a bra that fits her properly, regardless of her age,” she advises. Don’t make the mistake of buying a bra for your teen that is cute but flimsy, or an inexpensive but poorly made;“teen” brand.

Delicate breast tissue can quickly begin to deteriorate and sag, as early as a girl’s late teens, if her breasts are not properly supported. Spend the money on a good bra.
3. Choose an age-appropriate style.
Many parents are shocked to find bras marketed to young girls that are ultra-padded, push-up styles or in racy black lace that seem far too mature. A correct size and style for your daughter is most important key to support her tender breast. Or consider choosing an adult bra in a simple, plain style.
4. Too long a delay can have harmful physical and emotional effects.
Don’t wait too long to get your developing daughter her first bra or she may develop chest or back pain from the weight of unsupported breasts which can be very uncomfortable and interfere with sports, dancing, A bra that holds the breasts closer to her core will alleviate the discomfort that many girls with a larger chest experience. Further, a girl who needs a bra (but isn’t wearing one) can unfortunately be the;object of teasing,“can be very destructive” to young girl.
5. How to make the shopping comfortable and not a nightmare

now days even a girl as young as 8 year may also require a bra, a mother should be mentally prepared, donor delay too much in takeing the right decision for your princess.

now days online options are also available , u can choose at home.
6. How to Handel teen peer , social media , and teasing pressures
Gone are the days when we where teens ,

we had no social media account to Handel

none of our friends had internet or Dr Goggle to give us all the information we want n not want.

we as a mother must take the first step to educate our young daughters on there growing and changing body, we must understand there hormonal changes mood swings ,anger.

If u feel your daughter needs a bra n her frnds are still not using it, n she refuses to wear one its your dutty to make her understand and comfortable with her changing body.
sometimes its the other way round a daughter wants a bra bcoz her frnds are wearing, n she is hesitant to talk to the mother, or asks the mother but mother refuses,,, donot refuse b open and discuss it with her tell her the way the body grows at what development stage a bra is required.

4 tips to choose

comfortable bra

easy to wear no hooks

nude colours

soft and absorbing cloth, as school girls Sweat a lot.

Give her the wings of confidence to fly high and touch the sky.
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