Q:

ye meri 1st pregnency hai 
nd m ye baby krna chahti hu but mera husband allow nhi krta ki hum baby kre



Varsha

Dear Anu, talk to your husband calmly. If you are already pregnant than take every decision rationally.

prachi saxena

Congratulations anu...relax calm down...plz keep this baby do not abort.. u have to convenience your hubby...u r blessed that u got pregnant. ..now a days people r getting very difficulty to conceive. .and it is not good to abort baby.. will pray for u and ur baby...be blessed..do go to doctor and doctor will explain your hubby..best wishes. .

aditi manja

aap please apne husband se discuss kijiye. think about the pros and cons and then make a decision. let not any family pressure influence you. is decision mae aapke aur aapke husband ka saath hona bohot zaroori hai. aap dono saath baith kar dono ke mann mae kya hai woh ek doosre ko batayein. maybe he has some worries of his own which he is not telling. maybe it will help :-) and take care of your health.

Sonam patel

koi specific reason h jo ki wo abort karna chahte hai??

Sonam patel

aap aram se baith k apne hubby ko btayeye ki pehli pregnancy hai.. continue karna better hoga.. agar aap abort karte hai toh future me problems ho skti hai.. maine ek case dekha h jaha ki abort kar diya 1st pregnancy and future me unko baht problems huyi.. wo conceive nai kar paai dobara..
Dr.Shilpitha Shanthappa pls suggests the pros and cons..

Dr. Shilpitha Shanthappa

Hello...
I request you to please show our comments your hubby...
By all accounts, abortion appears like an awful crime. After all, abortion implies denying someone a well-deserved life. Just because the odds are not in our favor, can we deprive someone the chance to live?
-By terminating a life, can we justify our acts? A baby is often considered as a God’s gift, and it’s believed that every living being has a purpose behind his/her birth. By tampering with a life, aren’t we acting against the creator of the world?
-Having an abortion done always carries the risk of not being able to become pregnant ever again in life.
-Abortion can also lead to serious health complications, and in some cases the worst case scenario can be death.
-It often leads to unwanted memories, which can result into great stress and depression. Some women experience a feeling of guilt, which lasts for their whole lifetime. In short, abortion can turn out to be a lifetime worth of burden.
- it also impacts on major complications like uterine rupture, vaginal bleeding, irregular MC's...
if it is your first lregnancy, then i dont think so your hubby is taking a right decision.. please discuss further...

Dr. Shilpitha Shanthappa

Hello...
I request you to please show our comments your hubby...
By all accounts, abortion appears like an awful crime. After all, abortion implies denying someone a well-deserved life. Just because the odds are not in our favor, can we deprive someone the chance to live?
-By terminating a life, can we justify our acts? A baby is often considered as a God’s gift, and it’s believed that every living being has a purpose behind his/her birth. By tampering with a life, aren’t we acting against the creator of the world?
-Having an abortion done always carries the risk of not being able to become pregnant ever again in life.
-Abortion can also lead to serious health complications, and in some cases the worst case scenario can be death.
-It often leads to unwanted memories, which can result into great stress and depression. Some women experience a feeling of guilt, which lasts for their whole lifetime. In short, abortion can turn out to be a lifetime worth of burden.
- it also impacts on major complications like uterine rupture, vaginal bleeding, irregular MC's...
if it is your first lregnancy, then i dont think so your hubby is taking a right decision.. please discuss further...

DrShruti Nagar

Dear Anu
Firstly many congratulations for the good news.
Feel yourself very lucky as you are going to
Create  life .
There are many those who are desperate to have baby but even after years of treatment they can't.
Sometimes it happens  when God is ready to bless us we reject  but when we actually want to have then God rejects.
If you have conceived for the first time  it's God's wish  and  as this is your first then please go ahead and bring a beautiful soul to the world.

angel

dear anu .. u knw meri shadi ko 10 month hue h faimly mai expect kr rhe h hume jahaldi baby bt 1st tym bhot muskil se consive kiya tha 3 month mai miscareg ho gya .. fir 2nd tym consive kiya fir miscreg ho gya mai or meri faimly bhot sad h.. bt sbne smjhaya ki jab bhaghwan ko dena hoga wo tb dege so abhi bhaghwan aap ko de rhe h so plz cntnw ur pregnacy aapke hubby ko samjhao unhe fill krwao unka baby fir sab thk hoga... achha socho apna khyal rkho. tc

richa

hi dear.   firstly congrates to u...plz aap apne husband ko convince kare pregnancy continue ke liye. becoz its a god gift really....   and abort a baby such a guiltful wrk...  i have seen many cases... as in surrounding dat they took abortn after that dey hav so much difficulty for pregnancy even some r notvpregnent til today.... and nowadays  infertility problm.  are increasing..... isliye aap unhe samjae aur pregnancy continue. its a god gift to u.... all the best... dear

Anu ShaRma

acttuly humri shadi ke bare me ghar   me nahi pata

angel

ohh so aapko pehele btana chahiye may be do do gudnews sunke wo maan jaye

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