difference of opinion . being in joint family every one gives different opinion my baby is 1month 3days  for gas and crying elders say gripe water , doctors  says colimax, elder says it's summer luke warm water few spoon in a day ok doctor says only breastfeeding till 6 months . elders says palni mei sulao din mei and raat ko pass mei, elder says no daiper some doctor says yes some says no ..what time do  m pissed and  frustrated.  plz help .. 

asha chaudhry

hey we all hear u! so rule number one, listen to everyone but do only as the dr advises! its natural to feel frustrated and pissed off! a babychakramomgrouphug to u ! pls burp, give tummy time and apply a paste of hing for gas relief. exclusive breastmilk is advised for first 6 months :) enjoy ur time wth baby and try not to let various opinions upset u. pls read articles on babychakra and post ur queries whn in doubt. tc. Sheeba Vijesh Sheeba Rizvi pls suggest #tagfwd

asha chaudhry

ps do try using cloth diapers Superbottoms - they are available here itself


I hear you!!!! Its a bit tough to manage. You need to be a bit smart and patient...make informed decisions that you believe are corect. Use the app and experts. Then you can explain to your elders why you decided.

Roopashree Siddireddy

Go with the doctor. Always it's good to follow doctors advise. And above all.. you are the one..who know what is good for your kid. No other thing or water till baby complete 6 months. No diapers during day.. as you can look after baby and change Nd clean..Night make baby wear diaper..for a sound sleep for you and baby. No gripe water.. instead give drops referred by your doctor. Always keep baby in cradle or crib..and not with you. Let baby sleep independently. above all.. have patience. Ask here for any doubts.

prachi saxena

hey dear..take it positively. ...i can say that u r lucky atleast u got some who can look after ur baby atleast for 5 min..so can take atleast bath properly. ..and trust me it is very difficult to handle everything alone...so u have handle everything properly listen to both then u decide what is best for your baby related to any medical do listen to doctor. ..


I also agree , but I also want to know  how to make decisions.  been first time mummy we do not even  know many 5hings and elder say exactly opposite to what Dr say

asha chaudhry

aap yahan par post kar ke pooch liya karo! that may help sometimes? tc

Sheeba Vijesh

hi dear, here there are lot of moms who have learnt from their mistakes and experiences. also many experts and doctors are always available. if in doubt, just post here, and you will surely get help.... 😊

Ashika Imthiyaz

every mom shud come across this kinda suggestions... just hang in there at BC...read more articles to know more about ur kids...

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