my daughter start tantrums when she go to school .she said she wants to go and stand in front of the school gate and don't go inside the school. i asked her may be that something happens to her or someone say something to u but she never says any thing. in starting she goes fine but this thing starts after 3days of holiday please help

Sheeba Rizvi

Hi Vaishali it's the issue of every mom n kid of this stage. I also face the same after every weekends😨but kids calm down in 2  3 days...take her 10 minutes early and spend sometime with her play with her talk about students teachers friends fun of the class etc etc she will be okay...good luck☺

Dhara Popat

you can tell your daughter that her class teacher had called you to inquire about her..  she is eagerly waiting for her to cme to school after the holidays.. so that she can share all new things with all the kids.  meanwhile duri g parents meetup you can talk with her class teacher for the same that you are going to tell your daughter all this.. i m sure the class teacher would support you for the same.
i myself have done this with my kids n supported the parents when the kids use to face such problem. tc😇

Sheeba Vijesh

hi vaishali, this was me when i was 4 years old. in morning, i would happily get dressed but on reaching gate i would complain of stomach ache and refuse to go... it was because a teacher used to tease me... it must be something small of this sort... especially if its a teacher she would be scared to tell you coz she may think you will ask the teacher and she'll be in more trouble... if some other person than family could tactically ask her in playful manner, she may disclose...

Kavneet Kohli

speak with her teacher. check if there's anything going in the class which might be bothering your daughter... classmates, teacher, caretaker, etc.
and see if that can be resolved.


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asha chaudhry

hi vaishali - my child is very social, but after a stray dog incident she became insecure and wud cling to me at the nursery 2 classroom door and sob :( wud break my heart. she had a kind teacher who wud take her in despite the crying. so pls talk to the teacher and seek her help. usually some insecurity creeps in. good luck. pls keep us posted! hugs

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