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hello moms. plz help me out from this stress. some of my relatives come frequently like every week to my home and they won't let my boy sleep at all. they say that he is not sleepy when he is having sleepy eyes also. im getting frustrated and i cant shout at them. plz suggest me



Harneet (clanpedia)

just take ur boy away and say its his sleeping time. go into room. lock the door. keep it simple. not need to be angry on anyone

Sangeetha Karuna

Mounika Godena, it happens in every home dear. Please relax. I really wonder about these people. How they disturb a small kid sleep. We would've​ spent all our energy and our time to make them sleep and people will simply come and pinch or touch baby when they sleep and make them wake up. 😈. But dear please dont take stress. Let them know how much effort you made for this. Tell them do not disturb him. It took me so long to make him sleep. If he gets disturbed he will not have a happy mood. Just be frank with your words. Instead of being a bad mom, let us be a bad relative😁

aditi manja

hi mounika. i so understand ya. this must be tough on you. you could try being polite and explain that if the baby doesn't rest well in the day, he won't sleep in the night and that causes problems for you as well. Then take your baby with you inside your room and close the door till he sleeps. If you have your husband,mother or mil around you, maybe have a talk with them regarding how you feel and get them to talk your relatives. Don't let this stress you. It will just affect your health. Tc. Stay happy ! :* asha chaudhry Sheeba Vijesh Prisha Lalwani any suggestions guys? #tagfwd

Sonika Singh

hey do not take stress Mounika Godena...talk nicely to your relatives... please do not disturb.after you all go ...he cry lot..let him sleep...just now he slept..I took one hours to make him sleep.. tell time when he is wake. and playful mood...come at that time and play with kid

asha chaudhry

hey mounika - i think our moms have given u great advice. just stay cool and awesome and do whats best for baby, always :)

Neeta Nihale

hello dear I can understand in fact we all moms can understand.. no need to show anger or any explanation...
when you feel your baby is sleepy.. just take the baby n tell them he is hungry n sleepy n go to your room. in fact it's the time you too need rest..
if you have anyone with you like husband mil or mother.. tell them to attend the relatives. you just join them for sometime with your baby n then get back to your room.

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